cinderellawkids

Hey for those of you that read the post about my grandfather, Im going to have my boss call him and say Im doing a good job. Hee Hee

kj0975

I was thinking that same thing cind u should have your boss call. Next time I would just tell them until u have something positive to say please keep it to yourself I have enough going on without u making me feel worse or just dont answer that calls thats what I do.

Well gotta get ready for work had a nice lunch and now running out the door for work yuck I wish I had some better hours though. I have to work the next 7 in a row I think man I just cant take this of course they make sure it doesnt go into OT so they get what they want and dont have to pay for it isnt that the way it always goes. Hope everyone here has a great weekend.

oh and just incase have a HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!

teke

i stayed up a little late last nite and i thought maybe i'd feel better if i took a nap. NOPE, don't feel much better, the nerve of some people, can i just go out and find some nice guy and let him know that i just need someone to talk to, to help me to get over my ah husband, so that i won't have such a hard time getting a divorce. would that be wrong if i let him know ahead of time just what i'm looking for?lol

i did that once and it didn't work so well that last time, i mean i did get over ah, but then i had to finally figure out a way to get over him, i met another nice guy and had to do the same thing with him too. ah found out about it and threatened to beat the man up, him with his brothers. maybe he wouldn't mind this time, you think? he clearly states were not together. what do you guys think?

kj0975

having issues here how come I can see any of the new posts is this happening to anyone else. I signed out and back in but nothing oh well I will just have to check in later.

kj0975

Teke go for it if thats what u want. Your young. Your hot. Your a nice person. I call them rebound men!!! Why not they do it. Alright I can see new posts now. Teke do whatever your big heart desires who knows maybe u will find your Mr Right out there hes been waiting 4 u this whole time!!!

cinderellawkids

Teke, have to say I asked you basically the same thing. You said it wouldnt go to well and AH would come out fighting.
I sorta agreed but kept an online IM friendship with this guy, and you know what, my gut tells me Id get in too close to fast even online. I missed him too much when he wasnt there. We are staying online IM buddies but trying to cut abck on the chatting. Does it help....Honestly it makes me more confused

teke

dawg cinder, you are a bubble buster

teke

ah just called and is gonna send money by my stepson, this wk and promised money next wk, but i did tell him that i can't keep living my life this way and i think i've said it enough. he claims he's just trying to get himself together but it still has nothing to do with me and his two kids. i mean what are we suppose to do while he's out getting himself together. he claims that he's not gonna give us money every wk, but i've already called the child support people and they do payroll deduction and i know that when he finally gets the news that he's not gonna be too happy about that

teke

one reason i hadn't gone to childsupport earlier is because i know that i do get more support when he's not pushed by csp, but thats not a guarentee, maybe he will and maybe he won't. i think at least i deserve to know what my income will be even if its less than usual

cinderellawkids

Didnt mean to be a bubble buster. I just no thats what we all want but if we are thinking recovery its best to give ourselves time

cinderellawkids

Me too Teke, Me too.

finallyout

teke, rebound relationships typically don't work, especially when you're looking for someone just to get over someone else, i know, i've tried it too. but of course, if you're just looking for some distraction then go for it! who cares what ah thinks, if he wanted his family bad enough he'd do something about it now wouldn't he? as for the child support, good luck, i hope you get something from him, and who cares if he isn't happy about the payroll deduction, you weren't happy about his using & not supporting his family so, my attitude is screw him, ya know? too harsh???

cinderellawkids

My issue with distractions is I get addicted to them and the more emoutionally unavailablethey are the more I want them. It all starts out interestingly enough. Im hope shrimp guy and I can remain friends (since we have on and off our whole lives) for a year or so, he can get through his next surgery without needing a caretaker, get back working while Im figuring out me and AH and the like and go from there. Sadly, because theres been an interest before each of us can be set up to get hurt

teke

thanks cinder, i know youre right, but a part of me wants to think that maybe 21 yrs is plenty of time.LOL i know, i know. it don't count until i start recovery, thats when the clock starts ticking.

cinderellawkids

LOL.

I feel the same way. Course dont have that many years involved, but you know what I mean. If he shows up with fresh seafood or a new live turtle I may throw all logic out the window. Course for now he hasnt shown up at all just pops in on the computer to say Morning and at night to see how my day was. Thats enough for now. Missed him the other night and was soo sad, tryed to put it outta my head and surprise I had an email in the morning.

teke

well you're getting a lot more than me, my ah has never been sober enough to own a comp, let alone a phone. who are we talking about anyway. the shrimp man?

kj0975

Boy ladies when it rains it pours here. Well I went into work today and was called into the office. They decided that my attendace wasnt up to par and they didnt see it changing. So they decided to let me go. I was talked about my attendance needing to be a 98% last week and it was a 95% and I had 3 mos to get it up. So I think it was a bogus excuse but either way it doesnt feel good to be let go. Infact my boss told me I was an excellent employee and blah blah blah. The thing that gets me was out of the 4 absences 3 of them were out of my control really. My Dr pulled me out of work. Then last week I was having an allergic reaction along with being so sick I just physically couldnt sit there anymore. Oh well Scott is actually very happy and thank God I dont have a car payment anymore and He make really good money and No credit card debt and I applied for my unemployment so hopefully I can get that. NO MORE WEEKENDS. I am sure there is a deaper reason why I was let go but they had to use that as an excuse u know how it goes. The dept I worked for it was just horrible like I could only go to the bathroom on my break and I could only get something to drink on my break and they really just nit picked the hel l out of u. Plus just phoney people and I dont conform to that so I guess I just wouldnt fit in I am who I am ya know. I am relieved myself too at least we can have a summer this year and I dont have to worry about working 8-9 days in a row anymore nor working every sat and sun. It just always sucks being let go. But she did say I was an excellent workeer and I learned like a sponge and always helped out. WTF. Then she tried to make small talk with me like what were my weekend plans and such huh. And thanked me for being so professional bout the whole thing. Finally I just said No offence but I dont want to talk u nor do I want to share my plans with you. What didnt she know I was scheduled to work both Sat and Sun u f-ing moron. Oh well life goes on and I will get something I like and something that I will excel at. Well off to see what the plans are for tonight since luck would have it I do have the night off!!!

cinderellawkids

Im sorry KJ. The feelings round it suck, but something better will come along and if you can get unemployment think of it as a vacation.

Teke, Im talking bout shrimp man. Only thing AH would do with a computer is pawn it or look up porn (something I will not tolerate by the way and found AH was using my computer for).

teke

i'm sorry about your job, the one that you just didn't like. maybe that was god's way of pushing you out so that you can look for something better. he has better for you, i hope you already know that. good you don't have to work wkends and now you can hang out here a little bit longer, if you want to. i'm praying that when you are ready, that you will find a much better job, one that you will enjoy. still praying for ya

teke

whats up with this porn stuff, when i was active porn was the last thing i thought about. i'm thinking about going out for a glass of wine, would that be a relapse?