My issue with distractions is I get addicted to them and the more emoutionally unavailablethey are the more I want them. It all starts out interestingly enough. Im hope shrimp guy and I can remain friends (since we have on and off our whole lives) for a year or so, he can get through his next surgery without needing a caretaker, get back working while Im figuring out me and AH and the like and go from there. Sadly, because theres been an interest before each of us can be set up to get hurt