teke, rebound relationships typically don't work, especially when you're looking for someone just to get over someone else, i know, i've tried it too. but of course, if you're just looking for some distraction then go for it! who cares what ah thinks, if he wanted his family bad enough he'd do something about it now wouldn't he? as for the child support, good luck, i hope you get something from him, and who cares if he isn't happy about the payroll deduction, you weren't happy about his using & not supporting his family so, my attitude is screw him, ya know? too harsh???