ah just called and is gonna send money by my stepson, this wk and promised money next wk, but i did tell him that i can't keep living my life this way and i think i've said it enough. he claims he's just trying to get himself together but it still has nothing to do with me and his two kids. i mean what are we suppose to do while he's out getting himself together. he claims that he's not gonna give us money every wk, but i've already called the child support people and they do payroll deduction and i know that when he finally gets the news that he's not gonna be too happy about that