There are times when you're going to feel lonely. Just remember one thing. You may feel lonely, but you're never alone.

Develop a relationship with yourself. Being able to enjoy your own company is a must! Why? Because......Where ever you go.....There you are! You're the only one who has to live with you for the rest of your life and you'd better make the best of it.

Laugh often. Life is too short to be so miserable all the time.

Count your blessings. Everyone has at least something to be thankful for. Make a point to find at least 1 thing a day you've been blessed with in your life. You'll be amazed how it can change that "everything sucks" attitude around when you're having that bad day we all have from time to time.

Nobodies perfect. Everyone screws up at least once in their lives. Learn to forgive yourself. Carrying around that dead weight of what you should have, could have or would have done only serves to hold you back from who you truly are and what you could truly be. You only hurt yourself when you can't move past the past. Trust me, I know.


Life and situations in life are not all destined to repeat themselves. That's a load of crap! People can change for the better and even really good people do really stupid things sometimes.

Keep your nose on your side of the fence!! There's just something about nosey busy bodies that irks the shat out of me!!! Nobody likes a gossip. It's not my job or anyone else's to make you feel better about your pathetic life and it must be if you constantly have to be talking about someone!

And finally.......for now anyways lol....Try new things! Don't look at something and instantly think you're going to hate it. Hey.....even my cat likes black eye peas!! He would have never known it except I ran out of cat food one day and thought "What the heck" and put some in his bowl.

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