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Old 08-09-2016, 09:56 AM
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Hi everyone- mind if I join u?

I feel really behind the 8 ball in my home group. I keep failing 😔😣
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Old 08-09-2016, 10:01 AM
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Welcome CountryGal, and all the new faces

I just watched my sober counter click to 9 days.
Thought I would share today's quote.
"Put your interest in your future, because you are going to spend the rest of your life there."

Hope everyone has a good day!
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Old 08-09-2016, 10:22 AM
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Welcome country gal!
Keep posting and stay connected.

Just a quick check in to say hi to all
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Old 08-09-2016, 10:28 AM
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Welcome Country Gal! Keep coming back!
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Old 08-09-2016, 02:17 PM
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Back to day 1. No plan in action and just being careless.
My new plan is back to 1 day at a time. Enjoying the moment and being grateful. Going to start a journal and get 20 minutes of exercise a day.
After 10 months sober i picked it up like riding a bike. I feel regret letting the av take me back again. I thought I had it beat.
Anyhow onto finishing day 1 strong.
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Old 08-09-2016, 02:51 PM
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Why not go back to basics and make a plan let - a good one?

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ery-plans.html
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Old 08-09-2016, 03:19 PM
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Thanks Dee74 but I think you know of me from June 2016! Nice to see a familiar name tho!
Yeh, I meant welcome to the thread - welcome back
welcome to you too debg

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Old 08-09-2016, 05:08 PM
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Welcome back letitgo?..

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Old 08-10-2016, 11:53 AM
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Morning all - checking in for day two. Some night sweats last night, and definitely beating myself up that I'm still on this roller coaster, but at least not drinking and not hungover today.

Keep on keeping on, everyone- I plan on working on my recovery plan today. That's the one thing I never tried before. So this time taking Dee's advice
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Old 08-10-2016, 11:59 AM
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Finally back on after major SR withdrawal. Checking in on everyone. How is everything going? Anyone feel like throwing their hands up? Urges or cravings? I had a passing thought today that all my anxiety today could have been avoided with a xanax. But to me " just a Xanax "is the whole bottle chased down with a jack and coke. Damn addict in my head!
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Old 08-10-2016, 12:39 PM
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As we start to near the weekend my cravings and thoughts of drinking are starting to increase. With the hangover a few days gone I suddenly begin to forget that I cannot and should not drink. I'm so happy SR is back up and running, I need to stay near by this week and through the weekend for sure!!

How is everyone doing? I hope well
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Old 08-10-2016, 12:41 PM
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Finally back on after major SR withdrawal. Checking in on everyone. How is everything going? Anyone feel like throwing their hands up? Urges or cravings? I had a passing thought today that all my anxiety today could have been avoided with a xanax. But to me " just a Xanax "is the whole bottle chased down with a jack and coke. Damn addict in my head!
Isn't it crazy how the addict side of us can make our addictions feel so glamorous? I'm glad my husband dumped out the leftover beer because I really think I would start drinking now if it was there. It's maddening because I know I can't drink!
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Old 08-10-2016, 12:43 PM
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Morning all - checking in for day two. Some night sweats last night, and definitely beating myself up that I'm still on this roller coaster, but at least not drinking and not hungover today.

Keep on keeping on, everyone- I plan on working on my recovery plan today. That's the one thing I never tried before. So this time taking Dee's advice
I was looking over journals from over 10 years ago. Do you know that I have been on this roller coaster for over 10 years? I was writing things in that journal about not drinking and being sober...same things I'm writing and feeling today. Why oh why do I keep doing this to myself??
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Old 08-10-2016, 12:56 PM
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Isn't it crazy how the addict side of us can make our addictions feel so glamorous? I'm glad my husband dumped out the leftover beer because I really think I would start drinking now if it was there. It's maddening because I know I can't drink!
Yeah, I am a big talker with my glamorous drink choice. I have been known to drink yesterday's leftover warm beer left in the cooler.
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Old 08-10-2016, 12:58 PM
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yea, we are glamorous alright haha
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by kgirl41 View Post
I was looking over journals from over 10 years ago. Do you know that I have been on this roller coaster for over 10 years? I was writing things in that journal about not drinking and being sober...same things I'm writing and feeling today. Why oh why do I keep doing this to myself??
amen, sister!!!! I feel ya!!!!!!
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by kgirl41 View Post
I was looking over journals from over 10 years ago. Do you know that I have been on this roller coaster for over 10 years? I was writing things in that journal about not drinking and being sober...same things I'm writing and feeling today. Why oh why do I keep doing this to myself??
Reading old journals can be frustrating because you are forced to confront the person you used to be in your past. It is easy to question why . It is easy to judge yourself. But it is only a reflection of your life, not a play by play account of everything. It has been ten years of seeking sobriety, it is only human to question why you haven't found it yet.
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Yeah, I am a big talker with my glamorous drink choice. I have been known to drink yesterday's leftover warm beer left in the cooler.
holy cow- me, 2!!!

Amongst some of my worse mistakes 🙄😳
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:03 PM
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yea, we are glamorous alright haha
Put on your hooker heels and feathered boas girls! It is going to be a wild and crazy night!
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:04 PM
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Oh boy!!!!

Where'd I put those fishnets? Hmmmm
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