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Old 10-27-2019, 02:53 PM
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Hey all!! Sorry some of u have had a crappy day/days. Welcome to the newcomers!
lovely day in the woods with my little family & then I cooked a roast & homemade apple crumble!....hubbie said it was the best I've ever made.....that's coz I was totally sober whilst cooking it!!🤣🤦 its terrible the amount of times I cocked up meals for everyone coz I was too busy getting sloshed in the kitchen!!
Anyway, tomo is a new week guys! We can do this!🙌
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Old 10-27-2019, 03:26 PM
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Morning dear Zura. xx ❤️
Hello lovely, I hope you are having a wonderful weekend
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Old 10-27-2019, 03:41 PM
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Welcome 3 trees
congrats to everyone hitting a milestone today and my best wishes thoughts and prayers to those who have lost people they love.

I found the early weeks a challenge because it was almost as if, not having felt for a long time, the dam burst and I felt things intensely for a while.

I stuck to my commitment not to drink and things got better

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Old 10-27-2019, 03:54 PM
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Back after a 3+ hour nap. My oldest son just came in my room and turned on Lion King, it is our comfort movie. He was the only one of my kids to go to the memorial. He is my rock.
He made me decide totally today that I am done smoking too. The best friend of my Uncle chain smoked the whole time we where there (outdoors/scattered ashes). And my son struggled to stay away from it. I never smoke in the house or car. But as much as he hates it I need to stop, he deserves the best me possible.

My late Mom's husband is a pastor and "officiated" the memorial. He said a few things that touched some nerves. Such has "well Citrus has lost everyone". I really have from that side of my family and I've been dealing with it. It just hit me hard for him to say it outloud infront of people. And then a few other things that weren't very tactful. But I will get over it and best to do it sober.
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Welcome 3trees and Izzy!! ❤
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Old 10-27-2019, 04:02 PM
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Welcome 3 trees
congrats to everyone hitting a milestone today and my best wishes thoughts and prayers to those who have lost people they love.

I found the early weeks a challenge because it was almost as if, not having felt for a long time, the dam burst and I felt things intensely for a while.

I stuck to my commitment not to drink and things got better

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Wise words as always. I hope you had a wonderful weekend too xxoo
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Old 10-27-2019, 04:58 PM
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all good thanks Zura

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Old 10-27-2019, 05:58 PM
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Taco salads and football on TV. My day has officially turned around. I cannot imagine the mess I would be right now if I had drank over the happenings of the morning. The sober muscle workout today was good.
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Old 10-27-2019, 06:27 PM
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You know how happy that makes me love.....
Big time.
Go you. ❤️

And all of you and I am off to bed here in Columbus OH......so much love.
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Old 10-27-2019, 06:37 PM
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Today was a lazy day. Carved pumpkins with some friends, something I haven't done in years. I opted for the classic face--triangle nose & eyes, and a big toothy grin. Was fun and cheered me a bit. Then came home and took a forever nap which I guess I needed.

Tomorrow some of my goals are to do 30 min in the gym, take the pup for a nice walk, and bust out my big jug to start my water-drinking regimen again. I have this bottle that has the time increments marked off so it keeps me on track. I always feel better when I up my water intake and I've been eating like crap lately, so it's going to help with the bloat too.

Determined to start making some small, positive changes. My therapist has been away so I've been sort of venting here, it helps and I hope you guys don't mind.
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Old 10-27-2019, 06:40 PM
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Go for it Linners.....
I hope tomorrow is a really good day for you. x
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Old 10-27-2019, 06:42 PM
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Back after a 3+ hour nap. My oldest son just came in my room and turned on Lion King, it is our comfort movie. He was the only one of my kids to go to the memorial. He is my rock.
He made me decide totally today that I am done smoking too. The best friend of my Uncle chain smoked the whole time we where there (outdoors/scattered ashes). And my son struggled to stay away from it. I never smoke in the house or car. But as much as he hates it I need to stop, he deserves the best me possible.

My late Mom's husband is a pastor and "officiated" the memorial. He said a few things that touched some nerves. Such has "well Citrus has lost everyone". I really have from that side of my family and I've been dealing with it. It just hit me hard for him to say it outloud infront of people. And then a few other things that weren't very tactful. But I will get over it and best to do it sober.
Oh I've lost a few people and I've had people draw attention to that sometimes over the years. It always hurts a bit. One time my friend's son, when he was little, said something to the effect of "well Linners doesn't have any family" which isn't exactly true but close enough. It stung. You're right, it is what it is, drinking won't take away the fact those things were said or really help in any significant way. Might take your mind off it for the moment but then there you are, back where you started (as if I'm one to talk) :/

Glad you got through the day safe and sound, Citrus.
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Old 10-27-2019, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
You know how happy that makes me love.....
Big time.
Go you. ❤️

And all of you and I am off to bed here in Columbus OH......so much love.
Thank you and sweet dreams!
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Old 10-27-2019, 07:13 PM
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Thank you dear Linners.
I am glad you had fun carving pumpkins. And got a much needed nap like I did! That is the longest I've napped I forever, but boy did it feel good.
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Old 10-27-2019, 08:09 PM
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Goodnight all.
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Old 10-27-2019, 08:25 PM
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night Citrus and everybody

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Old 10-28-2019, 12:23 AM
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Day ...wait for it... TWENTY ONE!

I am astonished.

Thanks for being here everyone.
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Old 10-28-2019, 01:39 AM
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Congratulations Patcha

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Old 10-28-2019, 05:55 AM
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Good morning Octsobers.

Congrats on 21 days Patcha! That is fantastic!
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Old 10-28-2019, 07:20 AM
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Just popping in to say hello on a beauty of a morning in NE-PA.

I think after today, the weather is going to turn and fall will actually be here. The weather is not as predictably as it used to be, so who knows.

It's hard to believe that the leaves hang on longer every year.

So, have a nice day everyone!

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Keep the dream alive!
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