Class of October 2016 Support Thread
Good morning! Checking in for today. I woke up to frost and the crisp frost air. Fall is hands down my favorite season and I'm rejuvenated by this new fall season and my renewed commitment to my sobriety journey. Stay strong!
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Join Date: Oct 2016
Location: Birmingham
Posts: 14
Hello everyone, today is the first day of the rest of my life, I know it won't be easy, already it's on my mind, and I feel like crying because I know how much I hate it and I don't want to do it no more, it's always day two that pushes me to buy it so I know tomorrow will be even harder then today. I found this site this morning. Is there anyone else who has very recently stopped? How are u feeling?
Hello everyone, today is the first day of the rest of my life, I know it won't be easy, already it's on my mind, and I feel like crying because I know how much I hate it and I don't want to do it no more, it's always day two that pushes me to buy it so I know tomorrow will be even harder then today. I found this site this morning. Is there anyone else who has very recently stopped? How are u feeling?
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Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 896
I had a soda and lime and left saying I had to drive to take my wife and son out. Lucky escape if I had let them down and drank it would have been terrible and unfair after I promised them a nice family evening.
I'd like to watch Deepwater Horizon.
As I laid in bed unable to fall asleep last night, this started playing in my head…
You’re never too far from a brand new start…you can turn around.
I thought of all of the shame…and wondered what would happen if SHAME was turned around…
S-Sorrow (Remorse)
H-Hopelessness (Humiliation)
A-Anguish (Regret)
M-Misery (Worry)
E-Embarrassment (Guilt)
When turned around…
E-Enthusiasm (Joy)
M-Meaningful (Purposeful)
A-Awakened (Alive)
H-Hopeful (Optimistic)
S-Self-Confidence (Courage)
I'm sure there are lot of other great words that would fit here too!
Also, it's a vicious cycle...depression feeds the desire for alcohol and alcohol feeds the depression...
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Join Date: May 2016
Posts: 258
I like to focus on the good that Im doing by quitting. The past is over, you can only be in the now and change yourself now. Take a minute and write every positive thing that you're doing now to make life better. You take control of the depressed feeling. Also, go on pandora, you tube etc... and type in your favorite comic or song and listen to some stand up or good music, works really well for me. Focusing on something other than the depression always helps me.
Day 12 and today's the first real day I can say I am craving. Friday's were my grab a bottle of wine and relax evenings. I've started telling myself "What could it hurt?" But then I look back at my writings from the past couple weeks and remember why I'm quitting for good.
For me weekends are hardest, that means I have to work harder. Plan is to dust off my bike on Sunday morning. I hope I can go, need to get past tomorrow.
Stay strong, stay sober everyone
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Day 12 and today's the first real day I can say I am craving. Friday's were my grab a bottle of wine and relax evenings. I've started telling myself "What could it hurt?" But then I look back at my writings from the past couple weeks and remember why I'm quitting for good.
Can you make a great dinner or treat yourself to pizza or some other favorite meal to make the night special without drinking? Go see a movie? Bookstore or read a good book?
As for feelings of shame, oh boy I have a LOT of past transgressions to be ashamed of. But as I go forward, I'm planning to push them to the background and keep them there by doing more things I'm proud of. More fun and enjoyable sober things. And that shameful stuff is going to get farther and farther away in my rearview mirror.
I hope you feel better soon. We Sober Octobers are here for you!
Hi newlight - a lot of us do suffer depression - sometimes it's simply the removal of alcohol and the emotional rollercoaster that induces for a while...and sometimes the alcohol turns out to be masking a pre-existing condition.
Have you considered seeing someone about it?
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Have you considered seeing someone about it?
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Have a good weekend guys - just a reminder that the weekender thread is there for extra support if needed
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-2016-a-3.html
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http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-2016-a-3.html
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Join Date: Oct 2016
Posts: 52
I've battled depression for as long as I can remember. I went to the doctors a couple days ago to start getting help. It's coming in waves. I feel ok then I'll feel horrible, back and forth all day long for 2 weeks now. But hopefully I'll get some help soon. I plan on seeing a psychiatrist. Thank you everyone for all your support. I constantly check this thread. I'm glad I'm not going through this alone.
Hi Newlight7, have you found anything in your past that has helped to lesson the depression? Like exercise, a hobby? Something to help fill the void of time left without drinking in the meantime while you wait to get in to see the doctor?
Checking in again...Friday night in my time zone and a house full of four 10 year old girls. I plan to spend the time enjoying their laughter and all the innocence I will hear in them having authentic fun.
I was young like that once and wasn't needing alcohol...I don't "need" it now either!
Checking in again...Friday night in my time zone and a house full of four 10 year old girls. I plan to spend the time enjoying their laughter and all the innocence I will hear in them having authentic fun.
I was young like that once and wasn't needing alcohol...I don't "need" it now either!
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