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Old 08-28-2018, 04:27 AM
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Thank you Dee and everybody. When I drink I have an off switch, but I do like to get a nice buzz going. Drinking became a problem, total abstinence is the safest and smartest solution. I don't want to be a distraction, but I'm going to stick around SR and would like to post here with support and give some positive updates.

CYH, the In This Moment CD didn't come from the library yet but I'm looking forward to it. I tend to listen to a little mellower stuff at home and harder stuff in the car or at the gym. So cool that you took your son to the concert!

IWTA, great to see you check in and going strong!!
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Old 08-28-2018, 05:15 AM
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I won't pull out your first post Jimi but back then in 2016 you spoke of 'no real horror stories but definitely some regrets'.

Working off switch or not this has obviously been an ongoing problem for you for a long time- I think you need to think pretty hard about who JimiC is and what/who he wants to be?

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Old 08-28-2018, 05:30 AM
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Some great advice, Dee, that can apply for all of us. Thank you.
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Old 08-28-2018, 08:17 AM
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We think we have an off switch, but we really don't, or we wouldn't be here.

I've read enough here to know that moderation probably won't work for more than a couple weeks. People post all the time about "well, I'm back after two years, etc" I don't want to be one of those persons and lose another two years or more, of my life.

Knowing what I know now, I'd want to be sober even if I was a normal drinker.
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Old 08-28-2018, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
Working off switch or not this has obviously been an ongoing problem for you for a long time- I think you need to think pretty hard about who JimiC is and what/who he wants to be?

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We think we have an off switch, but we really don't, or we wouldn't be here.

I've read enough here to know that moderation probably won't work for more than a couple weeks. People post all the time about "well, I'm back after two years, etc" I don't want to be one of those persons and lose another two years or more, of my life.

Knowing what I know now, I'd want to be sober even if I was a normal drinker.
Thank you friends, very powerful words which I'm taking to heart.

I had some anxiety come back the next day and almost a feeling of shock like why? Will this snowball? Didn't feel worth it at all.
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Old 08-28-2018, 03:30 PM
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Hi Febs, this is sunshine but I've changed up my username for some privacy reasons. Also, I'm taking a break from SR. I love you all and please follow your paths and remember we only get one life, make the most out of it. Best of luck to all!
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Old 08-28-2018, 03:32 PM
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Take good care of yourself. I will miss you.
Love, Aly ♥♥♥
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Old 08-30-2018, 09:31 AM
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Hey Febs, long day yesterday. Doing okay, hope everyone is well.
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Old 08-30-2018, 09:32 AM
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Good luck tomorrow, Aly, I'm sure you'll be fine.
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Old 08-30-2018, 10:54 AM
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Thank you for remembering Tiles! That means a lot to me.

I will be in the hospital for several days, so I won't be posting, but I will be back!

Love, Aly xxoo
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Old 08-30-2018, 01:50 PM
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Don't try to be a joker like I was last month. I had a minor procedure/check up (butt check) and I was pretty funny, I thought. At one point my monitor came off my chest and I started screaming that someone was standing on my airhose, even though I wasn't receiving oxygen. I also grabbed a door frame when they were wheeling me into the room where they do the procedure. After it was over I asked where I could pick my award for having the "best ass."

No one there thought I was funny.
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Old 08-30-2018, 01:51 PM
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I think it's funny, but I won't joke around with the doctors! Thanks for the advice ... LOL
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Old 08-30-2018, 03:21 PM
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By the way, I'm going in tomorrow, so you guys may not hear from me until maybe late next week. I have no idea when I'll get out.
Take care and stay sober.
Love you all! Aly ♥
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Old 08-30-2018, 08:36 PM
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I've been away for the last couple of days but again, nest wishes Aly

Hope to see you again soon Joy.
OOTT, that doesn't sound like you at all, man

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Old 08-31-2018, 04:33 AM
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Thank you so much Dee.
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Old 09-01-2018, 07:18 AM
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See you soon, Aly. Good luck!
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Old 09-01-2018, 10:10 AM
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Hi All..

I am back in US. Lot's of jet lag and fighting some cold and cough. But overall trip was great had good time. Most importantly, I was sober throughout and it was my priority all the way....

Today I am 116 days with no drinks, one day at a time, staying sober and strong....
Aly - My best wishes and hope for speedy recovery....
Sunshine - we will miss you around. Take care...
JimiC - I have been on that path. It's starts with it's ok for one drink and soon it's slippery slope, especially, when going thru relationship adjustments, it could spiral into a storm. Be careful with your moves brother. I had no off switch at all...I drank till i shut down the whole town and passed out....
CCYA, Otiles - nice to see you guys doing Ok...
Dee- thanks for being here and everywhere...You remind me of Energizer Bunny ..

Thanks everyone for the support....Have an awesome Sat...
Peace!
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Old 09-01-2018, 03:12 PM
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Great to see you back IWTA! You’ll have to write up a post on your trip highlights one of these days.
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Old 09-01-2018, 04:14 PM
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LOL thats me IWTA

welcome back

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Old 09-02-2018, 01:24 AM
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Just got back from Foo Fighters show in Seattle. Sober of course, no worries. On the way back we were talking with a couple on the light rail train who had Dave Matthews tickets they can't use for tomorrow and gave them to us. Is that nice or what??!! Super nice people. So anyway, we're going to Dave Matthews tomorrow night, completely unexpected change of plans.
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