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Old 01-12-2016, 05:27 AM
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Just checking in to say hello. I am starting Day 12 today, so far things have been going well. I have thought about having wine a few times, but haven't done it. I had two bottles of champagne in my fridge that were left from a NYE party. I had moved them to the fridge in the garage. Last night my BIL came over to fix our electric stove, he is our go to handy man for everything. I went him home with two bottles of champagne.:-)
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:35 AM
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Good on you, Delilah! Got rid of it with an act of generosity. That is awesome.
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:40 AM
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2 weeks today.
Yesterday was hella hard.
My AV kept trying to convince me that I didn't care and I should have a drink.
I knew they were just thoughts but boy where they persistent.
Glad I didn't give in, drinking would of just made me feel bad and depressed.
One day at a time.
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:54 AM
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JL, that was a very powerful post. Your wife's family (YOUR family) sounds close and supportive. I'm sure you can make them proud. You have tenacity.

SiS, sounds like you are in just the right place. Glad you have the support you need.

Day 12, Tuesday, and off to work.
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Old 01-12-2016, 06:34 AM
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Day 3. Today I am grateful to be sober. Feels good. This is a start to a new chapter in my life. Sticking close to SR has been a life saver. Going to check out a new/different recovery program through the church. They meet once a week on Tuesdays.
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Old 01-12-2016, 07:02 AM
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day 9, appetite comes and goes, forcing myself to eat breakfast now so that maybe I won't feel so cold, hate feeling cold. Not sleeping well.
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Old 01-12-2016, 07:05 AM
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Originally Posted by strugglingJim View Post
day 9, appetite comes and goes, forcing myself to eat breakfast now so that maybe I won't feel so cold, hate feeling cold. Not sleeping well.
Jim, you sound miserable. Please hang in there. I promise, it gets better.
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Old 01-12-2016, 07:20 AM
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Day 17....

Notice much better sleeping and vivid dreams.

Upcoming annual family and friends Ski trip this weekend. Email came out last night on who is responsible for bringing wine and beer. I responded that I was doing the "Dry January Challenge". Hoping that message will help me avoid any pressure.

Plan on a great time with my wife and kids and not skiing the first few runs with a hangover.

Wish me luck!
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Old 01-12-2016, 07:25 AM
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Welcome to all the new people committing to sobriety in January!

Just checking in again from the class of August 2015 to give my support and let you know that the things you're going through (cravings, crappy sleep, vivid dreams, manic cleaning, etc) are all normal and all things others have gone through before you, and they will get better!

You can do this!
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Old 01-12-2016, 07:37 AM
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Well, I am fired. The good news is I do not have to go to work today. I am exhausted from not sleeping and sick from not eating. Clean and sober though.
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Old 01-12-2016, 08:21 AM
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Late enrollee here, hoping a seat is still open. I have flunked out of 3 classes already but I am determined to progress to the next level (can we ever really graduate?). Hi all, my name is Odelle and I am an alcoholic, today is day 5 of sobriety. I am looking forward to getting to know you all and to join you in this journey.
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Old 01-12-2016, 08:24 AM
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Welcome back, Odelle!
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Old 01-12-2016, 08:37 AM
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Thank you SillyHuman. I am sorry for the job loss, but sometimes it is a blessing in disguise, especially if the job was causing undue stress. Best wishes to you!
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Old 01-12-2016, 08:54 AM
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Welcome back Odelle. I've flunked out of several classes myself. Glad you're here.
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:00 AM
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Thank you bluedog97. It's funny how the AV can highjack my willpower. My shame was so deep it kept me from logging back in. The temptation to create a new account was so strong! Well, I swallowed my pride and I am holding myself accountable. Day 5 and feeling good!
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:14 AM
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I know that feeling well, Odelle. Good job on 5 days.

Things ok here. I'm on day 5 as well. Didn't sleep well last night, but I know that's probably normal in the early days.

Stay strong everyone. If you want to drink, keep posting. I know, I'm not good about that either.

Have a good day everyone.
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Old 01-12-2016, 11:33 AM
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Hey everyone, day 5. I'm about to try to begin immersing myself in a project for the first time in 2016.

I feel tremendously alone and sad. I am struggling to learn how to be ok without being in a relationship.
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Old 01-12-2016, 12:23 PM
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Evening gang congrats to everyone on thier individual milestones
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Old 01-12-2016, 12:30 PM
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Day Seven done, and looking forward to a good eight hours sleep tonight...

Hope Monday went well for all
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Old 01-12-2016, 12:58 PM
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Glb, congrats on a week! Well done.
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