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Old 03-18-2018, 01:03 PM
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And I kept wondering how many half glasses he drank quickly in the kitchen when he was re-filling his glass.
How on earth was he standing up? That is some tolerance....would have taken years I think.
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:03 PM
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Time to Celebrate!!!!



Our wonderful Milestoners!!!!!!
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by lyddie View Post
Sorry its not one week for me - only Day 3 today. I drank wine Wednesday night but am looking forward to celebrating one week next week.

Congratulations to everyone who is celebrating a milestone today.
Just so glad you're still with us, Lyddie. You'll get this yet!
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Originally Posted by RedBerryJuniper View Post
The house I bought a year ago is quite solid—only cosmetic improvements needed. Especially the yard. These were nice folks but gardening definitely wasn’t their thing. So, this year, it’s time to really fix it up. The front beds have had grass growing in them for many years—so...wow! No flowers yet—grass-pulling! I’ve got half of it out. I’ll chip away at this then plant an assortment of flowers. I burn easily so enough for today before I blister. Great sober project. And ya know, we may get another frost so I need to take my time. I feel brand new— what fine therapy it is! . Then, there’s the backyard.. I think I’m right on schedule. I will have stuff growing and climbing everywhere by May. Little by little it will become a lovely sober paradise. Would not bother if I was drinking!

Suze, I’ve seen pictures of your plants—gorgeous ! I need to learn from you!

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I was just thinking that I learn from you every day....how 'bout we join gardening forces?
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Congratulations!!!!



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Old 03-18-2018, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by lyddie View Post
Sorry its not one week for me - only Day 3 today. I drank wine Wednesday night but am looking forward to celebrating one week next week.

Congratulations to everyone who is celebrating a milestone today.
Oh......sorry honey. For getting it wrong and missing this post. Got you. ♥♥
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted by cornpone View Post
24 please for day 3.
also... I GOT THE NEW JOB! I start April 2. No more bartending for me!! Prayers answered !! ❤❤❤
Oh that is WONDERFUL news!!!!!
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:11 PM
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Back at ya Kris :-)
CONGRATS Jack on 3 weeks and counting!!!
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by zeppodog View Post
English Mastiffs, they're the sweetest dogs but look intimidating, you just have to be tolerant of drool.
Indeed they are, but look frightening if you've never come across one.
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by aussieblue View Post
Day 4.

8.36 am in Auss.
Aussie
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
Oh no, how scary. How are you now honey?? ♥♥
Leigh, did you go into the doctor today?
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Gabe1980 View Post
Thanks Delilah. The anxiety is horrendous and the crazy thing is that drinking just makes it so much worse. I'm just stuck in this cycle but I can break it. I thought I didn't care and that this was over but I've ended up being on here on and off all day. The part of me that wants a sober life is winning, it keeps coming back and always want to try again.
Your will break it, I have no doubt. I have always dealt with anxiety too, and I know it can be crippling, especially when you get into a cycle,e of worrying. My anxiety has decreased exponentially (I love that word.) since being sober. I'm glad you've been hanging around here, it's a good place to be.
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by SoberLeigh View Post
Well done, dear aussieblue.

So proud of you, my friend.
Hi Leigh!

Day 5

7.22 am in Auss.
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
This is a list of everyone who posted their commitment to stay sober in the last
24 hours: 10 pm EST ~ 9.59 pm EST.

It is awesome to have every single one of you here with us!


1newcreation
abcowboy
Alysheba
aussieblue
Awake61
Babs1234
badgerden
bandicoot2
BarbieKen
Bubovski
Canadian Koala
ChloeRose63
Coldfusion
cornpone
CrossYourHeart
Dee74
Delilah1
Delizadee
dizzybee
Endoftheday
erfra7
FormerBeerLover
Gabe1980
gatorman
Gilmer
Goat
goodbyeevan
goose333
Grapeless
Hats
Hevyn
Jack16
Jaffacake
joandmelandhan
jsm273
julietUK
Kaneda8888
kenton
Kris47
least
lilymaz
Lostmyoffswitch
lyddie
madtown42
Neoo
Neverthought
NewFighter
Nic233
Optimist4ever57
PhoenixJ
pixiedust78
Purplrks3647
Quincy
quitter62
Rainman1
Rar
RedBerryJuniper
Saskia
Scout17
shortstop81
soberista
SoberLeigh
stargazer016
Sunflower79
Sunflowerlife
Sweetpeacan
Tang
tgirl
TheToddman
theVman31
tomls
vanaprastha
venuscat
VikingGF
Vinificent
Vivie
Waterboy85
WaterOx
WeaverBird
wiscsober
yukonm
Zanna
zeppodog

Onward together!

Bump! Suze.
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
March 18, 2018


Gabe1980 ~ 3 weeks!
NewFighter ~ 4 weeks!
SaturatedSeize ~ 3 months!
gatorman ~ 1 year & 9 months!
tgirl ~ 4 years & 9 months!


CONGRATULATIONS Milestoners!!
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Just about to snuggle down for some herbal tea and a browse of Netflix.....see if I can find a hidden gem.
Gabe sending you some calming hugs and I hope you get some sleep tonight. I'm so pleased you've stuck around today. It's a great sign. Take care ❤❤❤
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I'm really sorry but I just can't do this anymore. I feel like I'm bouncing off the walls of a tiny room and I just want to scream. Everyone is so supportive here and have been so wonderful to me but I just don't think I'm strong enough. It's having to socialise sober. It's terrifying. All I do is think of drinking, all day every day. I'm done.

Thank you for all your help. You all incredible. Gabe x
Sorry you feel this way Gabe , I hope you change your mind and stick around.
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by lyddie View Post
Just got home from a having dinner with friends. I had a few difficult moments when everyone but me was having wine - kept hoping that I wouldn't resort to stopping to buy wine on the way home but after watching the host drink 7 glasses of wine (yes I did count!), my impulse to drink disappeared. So hooray! I am home safe and sober.
GOOD GOING, Lyddie!
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:27 PM
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Another 24 please
CONGRATS Tgirl on staying the course with 4 years 9 months and continuing on!
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Old 03-18-2018, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Gabe1980 View Post
I'm really sorry but I just can't do this anymore. I feel like I'm bouncing off the walls of a tiny room and I just want to scream. Everyone is so supportive here and have been so wonderful to me but I just don't think I'm strong enough. It's having to socialise sober. It's terrifying. All I do is think of drinking, all day every day. I'm done.

Thank you for all your help. You all incredible. Gabe x
You stay right here, Gabe. You CAN do this. Is it worth it? Absolutely!It took me most of my adult life to get and stay sober. You can do this. Will it get better? you better BELIEVE IT! It is HARD. But............ it does get easier. Start over and make this your day. You'll never have to feel like this again. Give it time. ODAAT. You are a part of our Family.
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