OkAy tHeN: "OUR" Famous Last Words ...
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After he stole my hormones and took several thinking they were Tylanol 3's....
"You will grow breasts!"
He checked every day for a month
"You will grow breasts!"
He checked every day for a month
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Originally Posted by cece1960 
" This one actually wasn't his fault"
" It was just a few bucks" (times twenty)
" You can't blame EVERYTHING on him"
" I don't think he's your typical addict"
" He promised he would..."
To his Dad (my ex): "Just stay out of it and let me handle it"
" It was just a few bucks" (times twenty)
" You can't blame EVERYTHING on him"
" I don't think he's your typical addict"
" He promised he would..."
To his Dad (my ex): "Just stay out of it and let me handle it"
Ditto that....just change he to she
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"He is living with his parents to help them out"
"It's only money"
"He's just got poor communication skills"
"it's genetic"
"by this time next year it will be better"
and my most treasured and overused line "I can handle it because we don't live together"
"It's only money"
"He's just got poor communication skills"
"it's genetic"
"by this time next year it will be better"
and my most treasured and overused line "I can handle it because we don't live together"
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Repeated trips to the pharmacist to try to get the right combination of sleep/nausea meds when ABF and I were staying with a bunch of friends for a wedding weekend. He was coming off his painkillers and I didn't really get it. .. I thought I could get this freaking out, vomiting thing to chill out and attend a wedding with me. Didn't happen. Instead, I spent my whole weekend at the drug store, reading labels and trying to make sure whatever combination I was getting for him wouldn't kill him. Tylenol PM, Nyquil, Xanax, Dramamine, Pedialyte. .. none of it helped, he stayed up for 3 days straight pacing around and flipping out and ACTUALLY CONVINCED ME THAT HE HAD THE FLU. My friends thought I was insane.
On one of my trips to the store, I bought him a "Get Well Soon" card. I cooked him food. When I wouldn't give him the whole bottle of xanax at once, he called me a "Manipulative b*tch." So I went back to the store to get him an ice cream sandwich. All the while thinking, "Why is this happening to me?!? I even bought a new dress! Doesn't he CARE????"
On one of my trips to the store, I bought him a "Get Well Soon" card. I cooked him food. When I wouldn't give him the whole bottle of xanax at once, he called me a "Manipulative b*tch." So I went back to the store to get him an ice cream sandwich. All the while thinking, "Why is this happening to me?!? I even bought a new dress! Doesn't he CARE????"
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"everyone deserves second chances"
"he really is a nice guy, he just lost his way and his family is too stupid to help"
"i owe it to him to help him out because i've known him a long time and i broke his heart once. i didn't mean to, but it doesn't mean that i don't deserve to suffer now."
"i'm not going to put up with this much longer. . . i know i don't want to be with him, but i could be with him if he got better." <---- HUH??
"if you knew him from before, like i did, you would think he's the most amazing guy ever."
"he really is a nice guy, he just lost his way and his family is too stupid to help"
"i owe it to him to help him out because i've known him a long time and i broke his heart once. i didn't mean to, but it doesn't mean that i don't deserve to suffer now."
"i'm not going to put up with this much longer. . . i know i don't want to be with him, but i could be with him if he got better." <---- HUH??
"if you knew him from before, like i did, you would think he's the most amazing guy ever."
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"But theyn(previous exes) didn't LOVE him, like I do - he'll get better because he's got someone who REALLY loves him" ====> no, he'll just cheat on me with the same exes, and get drunk
"he's not like this ALL the time, he's really a great guy when he's not plastered/high"
Great thread ((Barb))!
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
"he's not like this ALL the time, he's really a great guy when he's not plastered/high"
Great thread ((Barb))!
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
Then the bird said 'Nevermore'
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"But if you knew him like I know him..."
"I'm all he has now, I'm the only one who hasn't given up on him."
"He's doing really well. I think.."
"I don't need a present."
"He doesn't have money cause he gives all his money to his mom to help cover expenses, he's the man of the house now, I can't imagine how hard that must be..."
"But I can't really blame him cause ________"
"I know, but we talked about it and it's not going to happen again..."
yuck!
"I'm all he has now, I'm the only one who hasn't given up on him."
"He's doing really well. I think.."
"I don't need a present."
"He doesn't have money cause he gives all his money to his mom to help cover expenses, he's the man of the house now, I can't imagine how hard that must be..."
"But I can't really blame him cause ________"
"I know, but we talked about it and it's not going to happen again..."
yuck!
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OK, I really mean it--this is your last chance!
I am changing the locks--and I did.
I am changing the locks--and I did, again.
I am changing the locks--and I did, yet again.
I am changing the locks--and I did, finally for the last time.
i should have bought stock in a lock company!
I am changing the locks--and I did.
I am changing the locks--and I did, again.
I am changing the locks--and I did, yet again.
I am changing the locks--and I did, finally for the last time.
i should have bought stock in a lock company!
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"I'm serious"
"I'm done"
"This is the LAST time I (fill in the blank) "
"Are you lying?" (what do you think the real answer to that one was?)
I am SO @##$%^, that I could %^&*&^%, !*&*#@, another #@*&^% (Yeah, I've had some real potty mouth episodes I'm not proud of )
"I'm done"
"This is the LAST time I (fill in the blank) "
"Are you lying?" (what do you think the real answer to that one was?)
I am SO @##$%^, that I could %^&*&^%, !*&*#@, another #@*&^% (Yeah, I've had some real potty mouth episodes I'm not proud of )
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I am SO @##$%^, that I could %^&*&^%, !*&*#@, another #@*&^% (Yeah, I've had some real potty mouth episodes I'm not proud of )
Another good reminder of what it was like back then and why I will do whatever it takes to remain in a healthy and balanced place.
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Ten years of my mum asking me for advice about my older brother, then when I give it, saying:
I treat you differently because you're different people...
I was only a teen when I had him, it changes things; We only had each other.
You're jealous
Boys muture slower
He's my son
He's not like you; he wouldn't survive on the streets.
*rolls eyes
I treat you differently because you're different people...
I was only a teen when I had him, it changes things; We only had each other.
You're jealous
Boys muture slower
He's my son
He's not like you; he wouldn't survive on the streets.
*rolls eyes
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I too have cussed like a sailor at times. I NEVER use the gd... word. When my AD and I would have it out there was a couple of times that it came out of my mouth. In the middle of a full-blown tirade of mine, it just came out. I stopped with teeth gritted and yelled..."I'm sorry God"...as if that made it ok. Then I would just go on with my tantrum.
How crazy was that? Thank GOD I do not have those tantrums anymore.
Gotahavfaith
How crazy was that? Thank GOD I do not have those tantrums anymore.
Gotahavfaith
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"maybe he does have pain, he fell off a ladder"...(landed on his feet,no injury)
"a dr.is prescribing the meds, he will make sure he doesnt get addicted"
"he is bipolar thats the problem,people know that and thats theproblem"
"you love me, 26 years of marriage, you will get sober for us"
"I disconnected his car, he will miss driving"
"he has no family except mine, he will miss them,give it time"
"its a holiday, he will get emotional and he will go to rehab"
"he is sleeping on a couch, that wont last long"
"he will miss our dogs that will shake him up emotionally"
"I will talk to his pain dr. shake him up that will force him to get him into rehab"
"all accounts are frozen you have no money good luck!"
"I have an attorney, its over!!"
"okay Im going to start dating Im done" his response "I hope he treats you good like I do"
"a dr.is prescribing the meds, he will make sure he doesnt get addicted"
"he is bipolar thats the problem,people know that and thats theproblem"
"you love me, 26 years of marriage, you will get sober for us"
"I disconnected his car, he will miss driving"
"he has no family except mine, he will miss them,give it time"
"its a holiday, he will get emotional and he will go to rehab"
"he is sleeping on a couch, that wont last long"
"he will miss our dogs that will shake him up emotionally"
"I will talk to his pain dr. shake him up that will force him to get him into rehab"
"all accounts are frozen you have no money good luck!"
"I have an attorney, its over!!"
"okay Im going to start dating Im done" his response "I hope he treats you good like I do"
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"it's not the drugs, it's his High Blood pressure" (This said after he drove his vehicle in a ditch???)
"I'm never gonna trust him again" (and yes I gave away my trust many many times)
"I guess it's really not an abusive marriage, he doesn't really hit me or anything like that" (it was an abusive marriage - lying, stealing, manipulation, threats, and having to sleep with your car keys & purse under your pillow - that's emotional abuse! and that is an abusive marriage !)
hmm - i know this thread is to be light & funny - but geez it sure has triggered some sadness for me ~
Tears for all those years for that woman I was ~ who was desperate for help, but didn't have the courage or strength to seek it.
"I'm never gonna trust him again" (and yes I gave away my trust many many times)
"I guess it's really not an abusive marriage, he doesn't really hit me or anything like that" (it was an abusive marriage - lying, stealing, manipulation, threats, and having to sleep with your car keys & purse under your pillow - that's emotional abuse! and that is an abusive marriage !)
hmm - i know this thread is to be light & funny - but geez it sure has triggered some sadness for me ~
Tears for all those years for that woman I was ~ who was desperate for help, but didn't have the courage or strength to seek it.
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