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Old 09-08-2010, 10:44 AM
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Old 09-08-2010, 10:56 AM
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Old 09-08-2010, 11:04 AM
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"He's had a very hard life. His family is just....crazy!"

"He doesn't KNOW any better...we just need to be patient and love him and show him the way".

"Sorry mom, we HAVE to leave early again because he REALLY needs to go home (and get blotto)"

"No mom, the empty foils of sleeping pills are from a LONG time ago. No, really."

"He's never held down a job in his life because he's a depressive type A personality (whatever the hell that was!) and he simply can't handle the *stress* of working full-time"

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Old 09-08-2010, 12:17 PM
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(it was an abusive marriage - lying, stealing, manipulation, threats, and having to sleep with your car keys & purse under your pillow - that's emotional abuse! and that is an abusive marriage !) - I agree...it took me many years to understand that!!!
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Old 09-08-2010, 12:34 PM
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It's funny you said that Cece... I too discovered I could cuss like a sailor. I didn't always direct it at my A, but instead at some poor unsuspecting bystander who happened to mildly tick me off about something inane and silly. I found that I would misdirect my anger and frustration

Me too. I never cuss in general, but when I would spew, it would not be pretty. I hope I never feel that much anger, hatred and disgust ever again. It consumed me for a while.


Thanks Jap - (it was an abusive marriage - lying, stealing, manipulation, threats, and having to sleep with your car keys & purse under your pillow - that's emotional abuse! and that is an abusive marriage !) You're right.
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Old 09-08-2010, 12:43 PM
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OK, I really mean it--this is your last chance!

I am changing the locks--and I did.
I am changing the locks--and I did, again.
I am changing the locks--and I did, yet again.
I am changing the locks--and I did, finally for the last time.

i should have bought stock in a lock company!
Me too! OMG.

My famous last last words: You have exactly 3 minutes to get your stuff and get out or I'm calling the police. I'm done.

And I was.
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Old 09-08-2010, 04:58 PM
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"I'll give you ONE more chance".
... times 300!!!
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:15 PM
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"He's only calling them (dealers) to tell them he's done"
"He's a great person, but his priorities are mixed up"
To friends/family when inviting us anywhere: "No, I'm too tired to do anything this weekend (and the next, and any weekend for the next 5 years!!!!)
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:18 PM
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"he knows he has a problem and says he wants out" .... but he can't get help sitting on his a$$
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Old 09-08-2010, 05:19 PM
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Old 09-08-2010, 06:09 PM
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"He's only calling them (dealers) to tell them he's done"
Ha ha - Oh hell, I was meant to notify my dealers I'd no longer be requiring their services? I never was good at formalities. *Sigh
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Old 09-09-2010, 04:26 PM
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"This is the last time me and Dad are helping you. We MEAN it this time"

"What you've done so far is not so bad that it can't be fixed, as long as you turn your life around right NOW - you can still have a good life."

My personal favorite - as I clutch at my heart "I can't take this anymore, son, I mean it, I'm getting older and I don't think I can stand anymore". (For those of you old enough, I would make Fred Sanford proud).
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Old 09-09-2010, 04:51 PM
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"This is the last time me and Dad are helping you. We MEAN it this time"

"What you've done so far is not so bad that it can't be fixed, as long as you turn your life around right NOW - you can still have a good life."

My personal favorite - as I clutch at my heart "I can't take this anymore, son, I mean it, I'm getting older and I don't think I can stand anymore". (For those of you old enough, I would make Fred Sanford proud).
Yep, yep and yep Wisher!

And I'm old enough to know I also do a perfect Fred Sanford!
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I'm coming, Elizabeth ! ! !

Yep I remember it too. And I've been known to say it!
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Do you really want your life to consist of burning plastic off of copper wire so you can sell it to buy heroin? >>>referring to a story about his addict friends he was telling me>>>

Him: No!! I have a degree, I'm going to do something with my life..
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Old 09-09-2010, 08:04 PM
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"it would be really selfish of me to just give up on him, you don't just turn your back on someone you care about"

"he hasn't worked for 3 years because the economy has been really bad"

"why don't you just QUIT?!? I don't understand, just STOP!!! you obviously love drugs more then you love me"

and like the rest of you: "its ok, let's just not get each other birthday/christmas/anniversary/valentines day presents"
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Old 09-09-2010, 08:32 PM
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"Deep down inside of him he is really an awesome guy!"

"That was from a long time ago" me..."alright, if you say so!"

Unfortunately have gotten way too reaquainted with the f bomb. Yikes...and I used to hardly ever cuss. Guess it's just easier being mad at the world.
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Old 09-10-2010, 03:19 AM
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He's serious this time because he checked himself into rehab (doesn't matter that I just filed for divorce and he has no money or no place to go when the D is final)

Do you need anything, like cigarettes (on the phone with STBX while he is on his way to rehab)

Calling the rehab center 4 times on his first night of rehab trying to get ahold of STBX because he called me using someone elses calling card and asked me to call him right back. (Thankfully my HP intervened and I could never get through because the lines were busy)

Crying to my mom that I feel like kicking him when he's down because I'm still going to go through the D even though he finally after three years checked himself into rehab.

Oh' and all of this just happened yesterday... Guess I need to leave my ego at the door and start focusing on myself again.
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