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Old 12-04-2022, 06:08 AM
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Peke, honey, a plant-based diet does not mean you can't eat meat or fish. The idea is to eat low amounts of animal products. I worry that you are not getting enough nutrition, sweetie. s ❤️
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Old 12-04-2022, 06:12 AM
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Peke stick an earplug in that ear!TC , I know that all will be well with you this time around.
I need to break out of my state of apathy and try to get back into an old hobby today.
I'll pledge for today also
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Old 12-04-2022, 06:16 AM
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I hope you have a fabulous day, dear zenithboy! ❤️
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Old 12-04-2022, 06:54 AM
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Thanks for the warm welcome!

I will say that messing up was key to understanding the SEVERITY of my problem. I WANTED sobriety before. Now I understand that I NEED it.

So I want it and need it. I’m going to live in it!

Good luck with your hobby today, Zenith!
Way to go, Meshelly and Runner!
I’m glad you are here, venuscat!
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Old 12-04-2022, 12:56 PM
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So I drank last night but that's because I didn't tell anyone I wanted to stop and mum came over with wine.. I told her when she left though.
So day 1 again..
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Old 12-04-2022, 01:16 PM
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Mondays are good for fresh starts—onward together, dearest Red ❤️❤️
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Old 12-04-2022, 01:40 PM
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welcome ToughChoices

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Old 12-04-2022, 04:43 PM
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Hi Venus!
Thank you for your concern. I went to brunch with a friend today. And I ate a lot!! They have these huge slices of bread with avocado and tomatoes on them. I also had a large mocha! It was so good.

Today I saw my friend fro brunch. Then I went to visit my friend’s boat. He bought it second hand and he’s put a lot of work into it. He offered me a beer. But I had tea. So that was good. I think keeping busy with friends is a good move for now.


Just wanted to share this. Last night at 4am I got sick. I was throwing up. This happened before, but I had been drinking. So I’m not sure what this is about. Probably just a bug. I hope that my drinking hasn’t caused any kind of serious GI issues. I sure didn’t drink that frequently. Or that much?? But who knows.
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Old 12-04-2022, 04:44 PM
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Red thanks for letting us know what happened. Let’s try to stay sober together.
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Old 12-04-2022, 05:44 PM
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I’m glad you had a nice visit with your friend, Peke!

I get nervous about little illnesses/ailments here and there, too. In all likelihood it was just some viral ick, but checking with the doctor isn’t a bad idea - especially if the symptoms continue. I can get myself really worked up about stuff that turns out to be no big deal.

Thinking of you!
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Old 12-05-2022, 03:07 AM
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Pledging for today. Day 64. Made it through family weekend ok. Moderate drinking going on with them but no one asked why I wasn’t. Must be they think I shouldn’t be drinking. Best to all today.
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Old 12-05-2022, 06:11 AM
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2 days sober but I’m sick of my neighbours the police the patients the drivers my family and the hospital they keep bloody throwing withdrawals I hate them it’s hard to keep sober around them
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Old 12-05-2022, 08:31 AM
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Sober54 - Glad you are here! Glad you chose to not wait - you'll be so much further than you planned when New Year's Day arrives!
Bobdrop - Glad you are feeling better. Great job staying consistent!
RunnerF - Great job getting through the family stuff! Day 64 is awesome!
MeShelley - Way to get past that AV! Shopping was always a trigger for me too. Keep going!
BassetDog - Sober sleep is the best.
Pekelover - Wild orange tea sounds awesome. Blueberry tea is one of my favorites. You freaking rock.
Macaroni1234 - Glad you are here. This is the place to be.
Toughchoices - I'm happy you got right back. Welcome to our class!
Zenithboy88 - What type of hobby are you looking at starting?
Red78 - Hugs. I'm glad you let your mum know. It's a lot easier with support of family and friends.
Misstqueent - I understand that people around you are driving you to drink. They are not worth your sanity or your sobriety. Congratulations on day 2.

Hey - Dee, Suze, Caramel - thanks for all of your continued support!

Day 57. I had a very peaceful and quiet weekend. That never happens and I enjoyed it a lot.

Have a great Monday, sober friends.
"I see your fear, and it's big. I also see your courage and it's bigger. We can do hard things, baby. We are fireproof." - Glennon Doyle
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Old 12-05-2022, 08:55 AM
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I am so happy to hear that, dear Bobbi. ❤️
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Old 12-05-2022, 08:57 AM
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Good morning to everyone. We can all do this together.
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Old 12-05-2022, 08:59 AM
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Yes we can, dearest ST!!! ❤️
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Old 12-05-2022, 09:17 AM
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Hello, all, and Happy Monday.

After making a brief appearance here almost ten years ago, I have quietly lurked now and then while flirting, at best, with real sobriety. After using the Pandemic's enforced isolation -- coupled with a new "work at home" status -- to become an everyday drinker, my consumption dramatically increased over the last year. I have to stop, I know it, but these days I regularly find myself drinking against my own will.

I have avoided real consequences for too long, and I know that a real reckoning is inevitable if I keep this up: Sooner rather than later (there have been some close calls). Real opportunities, of a life-changing quality, will likely be lost if/when that occurs, and I can't let that happen. There is too much at stake.

So I'm back. Hopefully on my way to becoming a regular on the site. Sobriety really, really needs to "stick" this time. Thanks to all for making that a possibility by providing this forum.

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Old 12-05-2022, 09:21 AM
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Good morning.
I feel really good today. I have so much energy and I want to do everything all at once. This is when my AV gets loud. Because when I don't accomplish all the things that I want to do, I get myself stressed out, and want to drink so I don't see it. How dumb is that? lol
Today I'm going to try something different. I'm not worry about it. I'm going to do what I can today in the moments I have, and leave the rest for tomorrow. It's not like the mess is going anywhere anyway. It'll wait for me.
Day 5 AF
Day 77 caffeine free

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Old 12-05-2022, 09:25 AM
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Sobertoday, yes, we're all on this journey together.

Meshelly, I had to strive for balance in all parts of my life in early recovery. It sounds like you are doing that too, and it's a good thing. Do what you can, and leave the rest, guilt-free.

Stalwart, welcome back!
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Old 12-05-2022, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted by Stalwart View Post
Hello, all, and Happy Monday.

After making a brief appearance here almost ten years ago, I have quietly lurked now and then while flirting, at best, with real sobriety. After using the Pandemic's enforced isolation -- coupled with a new "work at home" status -- to become an everyday drinker, my consumption dramatically increased over the last year. I have to stop, I know it, but these days I regularly find myself drinking against my own will.

I have avoided real consequences for too long, and I know that a real reckoning is inevitable if I keep this up: Sooner rather than later (there have been some close calls). Real opportunities, of a life-changing quality, will likely be lost if/when that occurs, and I can't let that happen. There is too much at stake.

So I'm back. Hopefully on my way to becoming a regular on the site. Sobriety really, really needs to "stick" this time. Thanks to all for making that a possibility by providing this forum.
Welcome back, dear Stalwart! ❤️
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