Waking up to a SOBER WEEKEND - WEEKENDERS 24 - 27 January 2020
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Originally Posted by Dee74 
No need to toss out the tim tams or the smarties, but I would toss the port post haste.
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But I just ate a big heap of disgusting sugary stuff, both food and drinks. Icecream especially seems to help. God only knows how I’m going to fit dinner on top now. But hopefully I’ll be way too full to even consider drinking...
But yes, I should tip out the port
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Originally Posted by Mags1
Had to look up tim tams, they look good. 
Snuf, sorry drama has landed on your doorstep again but do what is right for you. I know I’d be pretty miffed if I was in your shoes to and it would eat away at me. You’ve come so far and recovery always comes first for us, others may not like that fact and say it is selfish but it’s not. Hope you keep strong and keep close, we’re always here for you Snuf xx
All ok at my end, not much to report. x
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Morning Weekenders! 
Thank you for all your thoughts guys, I really appreciate your help!
I woke up feeling somewhat better. I can't deny this situation may change a lot in his life, however it doesn't have to fundamentally change our relationship together, as long as we both communicate.
Oh gosh, I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I'm annoyed or something! I think you are absolutely right. I just need some time to process all this stuff.
Anyway.. I'm going to try to relax this weekend. I recently discovered that I love ice skating. A little late in the season
, but it's a lot of fun.
Thank you for all your thoughts guys, I really appreciate your help!
I woke up feeling somewhat better. I can't deny this situation may change a lot in his life, however it doesn't have to fundamentally change our relationship together, as long as we both communicate.
Originally Posted by biminiblue
Oh my goodness.
I didn't mean you shouldn't be upset, and that part IS your issue, I just meant I don't know that you have a lot of control over a horse that has already left the barn, so to speak. I mean it's going to be tense for a little while, and it definitely sounds complicated.
I hope you gain some clarity.
I didn't mean you shouldn't be upset, and that part IS your issue, I just meant I don't know that you have a lot of control over a horse that has already left the barn, so to speak. I mean it's going to be tense for a little while, and it definitely sounds complicated.
I hope you gain some clarity.
Anyway.. I'm going to try to relax this weekend. I recently discovered that I love ice skating. A little late in the season
, but it's a lot of fun.
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I’m glad you’re feeling a bit better today Snuf
I’m so full from all the sweet treats and dinner that I don’t even feel like a drink anymore.
I think it was the shock/surprise when I arrived that I wasn’t prepared for.
Just reinforces that I need to have a plan for unexpected situations.
Like coming to SR.
Thanks everyone xxxxx
I’m so full from all the sweet treats and dinner that I don’t even feel like a drink anymore.
I think it was the shock/surprise when I arrived that I wasn’t prepared for.
Just reinforces that I need to have a plan for unexpected situations.
Like coming to SR.
Thanks everyone xxxxx
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Snufkin - I have 3 step kids and if my partner kept me in the dark about any of them and I found out later on, then I can say I myself would have serious trust issues.. I don't know the full reasons why he hasn't told you but I would be very unhappy.
As for the fact that he has a kid and it may be a drama in your life its kinda tough these days especially as you get older not to have kids come into the picture from partners ex relationships..
I suggest just sit with it for a bit and find out if there's anymore to the story and then when you have a calmer mind maybe make a decision then..
Tough situation.. My step kids ended up being 7 days a week full time with us, very hard to deal with at times, especially since I didn't want kids..
As for the fact that he has a kid and it may be a drama in your life its kinda tough these days especially as you get older not to have kids come into the picture from partners ex relationships..
I suggest just sit with it for a bit and find out if there's anymore to the story and then when you have a calmer mind maybe make a decision then..
Tough situation.. My step kids ended up being 7 days a week full time with us, very hard to deal with at times, especially since I didn't want kids..
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Originally Posted by Red78
Snufkin - I have 3 step kids and if my partner kept me in the dark about any of them and I found out later on, then I can say I myself would have serious trust issues.. I don't know the full reasons why he hasn't told you but I would be very unhappy.
As for the fact that he has a kid and it may be a drama in your life its kinda tough these days especially as you get older not to have kids come into the picture from partners ex relationships..
I suggest just sit with it for a bit and find out if there's anymore to the story and then when you have a calmer mind maybe make a decision then..
Tough situation.. My step kids ended up being 7 days a week full time with us, very hard to deal with at times, especially since I didn't want kids..
As for the fact that he has a kid and it may be a drama in your life its kinda tough these days especially as you get older not to have kids come into the picture from partners ex relationships..
I suggest just sit with it for a bit and find out if there's anymore to the story and then when you have a calmer mind maybe make a decision then..
Tough situation.. My step kids ended up being 7 days a week full time with us, very hard to deal with at times, especially since I didn't want kids..
sRed and I have talked about this a little...I have 2 step-sons, and without going into big details, it is a total nightmare. They are horrible monsters and it has been majorly distressing for me. I have had to step back, and just let it be what it will be now. As I have been told by friends here, they are at the age(s) where they are hostile and it might change down the track.
Only saying this because things don't always work out the way we plan, and we can adjust I think.
But Snuf honey ~ I have an issue with him not telling you he has a child. I would need to resolve that before I decided if I wanted to stay with him or not.
s ❤️❤️
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Originally Posted by Dee74
I'm sorry you're still not feeling great Suze.
Is Nick away?
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Is Nick away?
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I have had a huge amount of stress this week and it comes out down the left side of my body, so now that my jaw and stuff is improving, my neck went out. Oy.....it will be alright.
Hope you have a good sleep.
Yot too Willow.
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...I have had a huge amount of stress this week and it comes out down the left side of my body,
so now that my jaw and stuff is improving, my neck went out. Oy.....it will be alright... Jōbū and I hope you feel better, Suze.
Originally Posted by venuscat
...I have had a huge amount of stress this week and it comes out down the left side of my body,
so now that my jaw and stuff is improving, my neck went out. Oy.....it will be alright...
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