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Old 07-17-2016, 09:32 AM
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:33 AM
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Yay it's Mex! I'm totally out of the loop on the Pokemon thing! Glad we have some trendy people here to keep people like me up to date!

I started googling that car, Sao and omg! I now understand why you'd need to win the lottery to buy one!

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Old 07-17-2016, 09:34 AM
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K I pm'd bix
I hope MNL is doing alright too

Brynn I had to look too haha
Very expensive!!!
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:36 AM
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Are they Soyo cucumbers Brain?
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:37 AM
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Cigarette cravings are completely different than alcohol. The chemical dependence on nicotine is just relentless, and the cravings just don't stop for days. Quitting alcohol has been the biggest challenge of my life, but quitting smoking was the most intensely uncomfortable experience. Lots of water, gum snacks and constant reminders of WHY I was quitting were what saw me through.
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:41 AM
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Hey friends. Well I'm alive but I had a slip last night.... my phone fell out of my jacket while I was riding so I don't have that anymore. I pretty much used that as an excuse to say **** it and "have a few drinks" at this party I was going to where I didn't know a single person and everyone was drinking. (Hindsight - this was all a bad idea from the getgo...)

To say I am mad at myself... furious even... is an understatement.

I thought about grabbing a bottle this morning just to forget about it all but decided not to. So I'm laying in bed feeling god awful and resting.

Grrrr.
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:43 AM
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Hope everyone else is having a better and sober weekend. <3
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:58 AM
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You're alright MNL- just keep trying!!!! Xoxo
Just keep coming back to weekenders- everyone will help and not judge
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Old 07-17-2016, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Username7775 View Post
Cigarette cravings are completely different than alcohol. The chemical dependence on nicotine is just relentless, and the cravings just don't stop for days. Quitting alcohol has been the biggest challenge of my life, but quitting smoking was the most intensely uncomfortable experience. Lots of water, gum snacks and constant reminders of WHY I was quitting were what saw me through.
Thats it exactly- relentless, inexhaustible cravings.
If I can't stop before my backpacking trip, I'll go into the woods with no cigs and battle it out there for a few days.
I'll have no way to get any smokes
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Old 07-17-2016, 10:00 AM
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Gonna go have lunch with my bestie- talk later gators!
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Old 07-17-2016, 10:01 AM
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Good to see you Mecanix

MissNewLife I would steer clear of parties in the early days as there is too much temptation around. As you are young that is quite hard but worth it in the long run
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Old 07-17-2016, 10:01 AM
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MNL, I'm glad your motorcycle didn't kill you.

The bottle may, though.

Please don't go buy any today.

I had to have strategies for things like parties and accidents and feeling good and celebration and money hits and everything.

My strategy was, "I will not pick up a drink, no matter what."

So far that is my best self-talk.
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MNL, I'm glad your motorcycle didn't kill you.

The bottle may, though.

Please don't go buy any today.
I completely agree.

And I won't. No way no how. That little devil on my shoulder won't shut up though!!!
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Old 07-17-2016, 10:07 AM
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I completely agree.

And I won't. No way no how. That little devil on my shoulder won't shut up though!!!
Well, that's because you gave in.

It's just like recovery-BF. If you had let him, he'd still be tryin' to build a relationship with you.

No contact. It's the only way.
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Pickling Tee is on... I have been known to be a bit messy when cooking. Though I clean up quick. I am working with beet juice so I have on an old tee.

Pickled eggs here I come!!! COWABUNGA!!!!!

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Old 07-17-2016, 10:24 AM
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You can do this MNL and we will help you if we can. You have to make it so that drinking is not even an option.
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Old 07-17-2016, 10:51 AM
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jsbodhi - I browsed in the used section of the bookstore and acquired Codependent No More, The Gifts of Sobriety, Undrunk: A skeptics guide to AA, Healing the Shame that Binds You, Don't Take Personally: Transform Rejection i to Self-Acceptance, and Beating the Blues: New approaches to Overcoming Dysthymia and Chronic Mild Depression. I'm reading the first two mentioned and really am liking The Gifts of Sobriety.

Thanks Ruby; feeling more on today. I think I"m missing my grandchildren and my kids.
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Old 07-17-2016, 10:54 AM
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MNL, I think the devil on your shoulder will quiet a bit as you are feeling better and get that crap out of your system. Glad you are resting and drink lots of water.

Stay strong and don't ever give up!
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Not giving up! Here to stay.
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Mind out for those grassy knolls Brynn
I've only been to Brynnie's fair city once, for a conference. I was staying in a hotel -- the Hyatt, if I recall correctly -- that overlooked the grassy knoll. Kind of a boring evening in my room so I channel-surfed and came upon a History channel program about the JFK assassination.

Unusual experience. I pulled a chair over to the window and looked out over the grassy knoll, the book depository, etc., as sequence of events that took place years earlier was documented, point by point, on the screen.

Rather uncanny, timing-wise.

Ken, do you like watching the Great British Bake-off? I think you might just love it.
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