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Old 02-24-2016, 06:31 PM
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Old 02-24-2016, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by SnoozyQ View Post
So very true. Thank you dear friend xx

I'm really trying to cope today , I'm a crying mess. I need for this stuff to pass. I can't function. .
(((Snooz))); wish I was there to give you a shoulder on which to cry.
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Pouring rain here, too, Bob with gusty winds and thunder and lightning!!!!
Yup,the wind is crazy strong here now also. Like tropical storm force.
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Yup,the wind is crazy strong here now also. Like tropical storm force.
It was wild!!!!

The storm has passed and the moon has peaked through the clouds and a few stars are now visible . . .
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Old 02-24-2016, 09:59 PM
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Hi Bob

hey to everyone else too

Snooz - you're not an old woman - there's still time to refashion your life and enjoy the heck out of it
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Good morning gang I know I slept well I can hardly see lol
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Going to take Glen out for a morning walk
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Old 02-25-2016, 12:58 AM
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Still chilly outside but Glen enjoyed it he shows no sign of cold affecting him where I was well wrapped up lol

Refilled one of the bird feeders again and there was 2 goldfinches right by the door I could see them perfectly they are so beautiful
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Wendy. Sorry you are feeling sad, but remember, crying is OK. You are supposed to cry when you are upset. That's not a bad thing, lovey.xx
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Wendy. Sorry you are feeling sad, but remember, crying is OK. You are supposed to cry when you are upset. That's not a bad thing, lovey.xx
Yep, that's so true. Much better than numbing yourself. I had a good cry the other day and it felt good! Hugs to you Snooz. Hope you have a better today/tomorrow (not sure what time it is there).

Another rainy day here. We also had really bad storms last night. Had our 6yo in bed with us. Was surprised Abby slept right through them But then she was up at 5:30. Feeling a little tired this morning, but at least I am enjoying my coffee, which I never did hungover.

Have a great day everyone
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Old 02-25-2016, 05:48 AM
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Hi Bob

hey to everyone else too

Snooz - you're not an old woman - there's still time to refashion your life and enjoy the heck out of it
You're so right Dee I so love my Julyers. Just checking in here has brought a smile to my face. I'm all cried out for the time being.
Hoping tomorrow will bring some happiness.

It's Hollys birthday tomorrow. I'm going to bake her a cake. It's going to be a good positive day. I will try to keep busy & not wallow.

But you are all right. Crying has purged a lot of sadness, rather that bottling it up. Xxx

I love you wonderful people.

Have NO desire to drink. I never will again. X
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I'm sorry my post was self indulgent. I hope you all have a wonderful day or evening wherever you are. XXXX

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I'm sorry my post was self indulgent. I hope you all have a wonderful day or evening wherever you are. XXXX

I have never, ever seen anything self-indulgent in any of your posts, Snooz. All I see is love and support.
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Happy Thursday/Friday, all.

It's almost the weekend!!!!!!!!
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Snoozy, I'm sorry you're feeling so sad. It sounds like you are coping with great strength and you should be proud of yourself.

My acting classes ended last night, and Mark my scene partner asked me if I wanted to go and see the play we both auditioned for but didn't get the parts. I sort of vacillated and told him I didn't know if I wanted to see the play where it might have been me, sucky I know, but also, this is a small city and I don't want ppl to see us together and assume he's got a lady friend. I mean he's still married although separating and what if word gets back to his wife? I think he's lonely and if we could just go as theatre companions tat would be ok. He said sleep on it. Oh, I don't know, this am, I thought I should see the play it's a good play and it will be a learning experience so I emailed Mark and said I'd go with him. He'd said he had two tickets but I will insist on paying for mine. I just don't know. Sometimes it's just easier to go to stuff alone. This scenario is complicated it seems to me, but maybe I'm reading more into it than I need to. Mark told me his daughter is upset with him and pulling away, even though it was his wife who wanted the separation. Why doesn't he take his daughter to the play? She's into theatre.
Our class went for drinks after the class and I was fine and didn't even think about drinking.
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Old 02-25-2016, 07:59 AM
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Leshar , I'm so glad you are going to play, I really am. You can watch what was to be your part and know you could have done it better I think it's lovely that you and Mark are goi g together. Don't worry what other people think.
Just go and enjoy yourselves, it should be a really good night.

Don't worry about the daughter , she will be ok. It's just showing a united front with the mother.

I think it will be such an enjoyable night, I can't wait to hear all the details. Mark sounds like a lovely friend. You have A lot in common xxxxx
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Old 02-25-2016, 08:07 AM
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Have a nice time at the play, Leshar. Mark sounds like a nice man and the date sounds like a casual event. Have fun.
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Old 02-25-2016, 10:07 AM
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Your post was not self-indulgent, Snooz. Geez!xx

I remember crying and ranting a lot in the shower when I first got sober. It felt a bit weird at first, but LB you are right, it's 100% better than drinking.

Our feelings are meant to be expressed in healthy ways. Give me a little rant in the shower with tears any day over drinking!
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Old 02-25-2016, 11:52 AM
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Snooz don't be silly you are far from self indulgent more like you are very awesome xx happy birthday to Holly tomorrow x

Hiya Croiss have a lovely day I hope your week is going well x

Hi Leshar you already know I think your awesome I think you should go mark sounds nice & hasn't crossed boundaries & there's nothing wrong with friends going to the theatre I doubt his ex cares ? it's your choice hun go with what feels right x
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Old 02-25-2016, 11:52 AM
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Hiya Leigh Hi bob, WeHav, Let & Julyers everywhere
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