BBQBiker

Kitty - ditto what Della and Brynn said.

Midwest1981

Yes Brynn I am in Colorado and I will be until the weekend. I am in a different state almost every week. it is all part of my husbands job. I am hard to keep up with.

I love oatmeal raisin cookies. The ones made with tons of butter. Yum!

Midwest1981

I am proud of you Kittycat for not going to HH. Good luck with the guy situation.

brynn

That's neat you get to travel so much, Midwest!

Midwest1981

I love it but I miss home sometimes too!

BBQBiker

Middy, how much time do you get to spend at home?

Tonks

You'll always have a home with us Middy.

Della

Midwest1981

BBQBiker-probably 32 weeks on the road home 20. it isn't too bad. We are super busy right now though. Which is okay job security!

Midwest1981

Thanks Tonks.

Della1968

Ok I may possibly love you again.

Mid it must be great too see so many places but I think I would get exhausted!

kittycat3

Thanks for the support guys! I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship or anything, and he responded by saying that we can just hang out with no expectations....however I know better
I am not interested in even hanging out as friends, he's always pushed the limit with me (too long of a lingering hug, jokes about us making out, etc.). Kind of like the guy carolyn knapp mentions in her book, the older gentleman she drank with often in the past, and has dinner with once after she got sober. In the light of her sobriety she notices this guy is crass, stared at her breasts, and got too close to her ultimately making her very uncomfortable. This guy is the same, when I've been drinking I brush those things off but when I am sober I realize that's just not the kind of company that I want to keep !

brynn

Way to go, miss kitty!! Woohoo! Way to see the light and take care of yourself!! Well done!!

Della1968

Reminds me how is everyone coming on the book??

BBQBiker

Good call Kitty.

kittycat3

I'm done with the book ha. I had a head start, read it a few times now. It's an amazing piece of work. If you are anything like me you will want to go back again and re read it. It's so spot on and well written.

kittycat3

Did you Finish it della? What did you think?

Della1968

I read it a few years ago and reread it when you guys were talking about it. I for some reason related to it a lot more sober than when I read it before.

kittycat3

Yes every time I've gone back I am astounded at her way of summarizing it up perfectly and eloquently.....just exactly like I would have put it, if I had the writing gift she had.

Midwest1981

I am glad you told him kittycat. Now you don't have to think about it anymore. I am done with the book.

BBQBiker

Quiet in the litter tonight.