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Old 10-08-2013, 05:22 PM
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Grateful for the sunrise and sunset.
Grateful for some creative ideas brewing in my mind....
Grateful I met another neighbor tonight and she was super nice!
Grateful the milk and butter here are 20% lower in price than my other town.
Grateful I ran into a friend at work. He said: "Did you move yet? Are you happy?"
And I said: "I am happier than I have been in a very long time."
Grateful I listened to my gut, asked for help, and initiated change in my life.
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Old 10-08-2013, 05:51 PM
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Grateful to let myself feel pain. And grateful to work towards positive change.
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Old 10-08-2013, 07:01 PM
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Grateful to remember to ask others around how they are and focus less on myself.
Grateful to focus more on myself instead of making others happy.
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Grateful that I am home, sober, after attending a function with alcohol! Yay!
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Grateful that an emotional day was not about me nor my relationships, grateful that the emotions of others came to the surface when they were in need.
Grateful that the resultant weariness will be cured by a long night's sleep instead of masked by a bottle.
Grateful that I have such a nice bed to go to.
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Old 10-09-2013, 04:02 AM
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Grateful that I got through two really hard work days without saying "I can't".
Grateful for fortitude.

Nite all,

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Old 10-09-2013, 04:54 AM
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Grateful to have hit a bit of an emotional rock-bottom today; my character defects were going off-tap last night and I was very close to a drink....but I didn't pick one up

Grateful I can use this experience as a learning tool

Grateful for the amazing meeting tonight

As always, grateful for my sponsor's guidance

Night night, gratties!

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Old 10-09-2013, 08:15 AM
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Grateful to focus more on myself instead of making others happy.
I guess we have to find that balance, eh? Sometimes "making others happy" makes me as happy as them. I just can't do it at my own expense. And sometimes asking for & accepting help helps the helper, too. It's pretty cool!

Grateful I remembered that I forgot to come on SR last night and that I'm posting this morning. I'll try to come back again tonight.

And grateful I am taking the day off for self-care and that I changed my RSVP to "no" for a difficult hike tomorrow. I need to rest a bit and I'm glad that I can realize that today and take a break.

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Old 10-09-2013, 11:29 AM
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Old 10-09-2013, 03:57 PM
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grateful to get the news today,

band1 has a real gig beginning of dec.
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Old 10-09-2013, 04:15 PM
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Grateful Rusty can have groupies now!! Thats fab, Rusty!
Grateful I made it home safely in the rain.
Grateful when my sister just asked if she can come visit Saturday, I waited to react cause my first reaction was oh no! Then I stopped and thought about all she has done for me to get me where I am today and I said Yes of course you can.
Grateful my world is expanding and I am learning to be open.
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Old 10-09-2013, 05:10 PM
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Grateful when my sister just asked if she can come visit Saturday, I waited to react cause my first reaction was oh no! Then I stopped and thought about all she has done for me to get me where I am today and I said Yes of course you can.
Reminds me of the challenges I'm dealing with trying to be "family" with my brother now that our mom is in assisted living. He lives just down the block and has NO ONE else. Things to work through...

Grateful for the first fire in the fireplace for this season.

And grateful I kept stopping myself from doing "busy-ness" after I said this morning I was taking the day off. I still did a lot of stuff, but I also stopped and DIDN'T do some things I knew could wait. Glad I'm getting better at taking it easy.

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Old 10-09-2013, 07:36 PM
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Grateful to work through my insecurities and fears at work, one day at a time.

Grateful that I'm putting my recovery first and not falling into my mother's and siblings trap into making me a scapegoat when I'm a nice sober person who has done nothing wrong to them.

I don't have time for their nonsense and games. I've come such a long way after 21 years sobriety. Its almost like they want me to drink or have a fall so they can feel superior. They need a scapegoat but won't get one in me.

Grateful for the reminder in the BB that says our sobriety is dependent on God and not other people.
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Old 10-09-2013, 08:04 PM
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I guess we have to find that balance, eh? Sometimes "making others happy" makes me as happy as them. I just can't do it at my own expense. And sometimes asking for & accepting help helps the helper, too. It's pretty cool!

Grateful I remembered that I forgot to come on SR last night and that I'm posting this morning. I'll try to come back again tonight.

And grateful I am taking the day off for self-care and that I changed my RSVP to "no" for a difficult hike tomorrow. I need to rest a bit and I'm glad that I can realize that today and take a break.

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Absolutely! I never looked after my own needs or wants and that let to lots of bad decisions. I tried to keep others happy. I didn't care for myself. I had no sense of self, besides ultimately drugs. Now I remember to practice self care and listen to my self. Imo, you can't help others if you're not well yourself.
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Old 10-09-2013, 08:06 PM
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Grateful to know how to prioritize.
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Old 10-09-2013, 08:59 PM
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Grateful for a busy day, to be sober and tired and looking forward to a good night's sleep. Glad to appreciate the simple things!!
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Old 10-10-2013, 03:20 AM
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Like EQ grateful Rusty can now have groupies, they can line up behind the SR groupies.

Grateful the first scorcher of the season is over and cooler weather is on the way.
Grateful to get through a super hot day so much better than I have in years.
Grateful that even though I didn't do my best at work today, I can tomorrow.
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