AH is sending threatening texts
So, so happy to hear your update! Thank you for letting us know. It's amazing how far you can come, and so fast, with the right "medicine" (even when it's hard to swallow).
Blessings to you and your children, and peace in your heart and your home (which it sounds as though you have!)
Blessings to you and your children, and peace in your heart and your home (which it sounds as though you have!)
Yes, the next day he realized his control issues had left him holding the bag 100% on the bill and the costs he would incur from canceling my end of the contract. LOL! I'm glad I didn't lose my head, through all this people keep reminding me that I am holding all the cards and all his stuff is just blustering. The next day he was all benevolent, saying he had unsuspended my number, but I told him too late I had tossed that sim card and he had done me a favor as I no longer had to endure his texting. Then he said I had to pay the next bill since I had used the phone part of the time. :rotfxko
Yeah, he thought suspending your phone would "fix" you! Tic Toc... :rotfxko
He underestimated you!! He over estimated his abusive ways. You found your inner strength which was his worse fear.
Oh and I bet the dog is happier now too!
Unfortunately the dog died shortly before AH left.
To thine own self be true.
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AH wants his family back he told his mother, and that scares me because I feel like that means he will pressure me until I break or something, actually I don't know why it scares me.
To thine own self be true.
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Even now I feel he is trying to manipulate me with his congenial emails about the house sale, where he slips in compliments about me and comments about his recovery and new job.
Is he making meaningful and consistent child support payments?
To thine own self be true.
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Oh, and please start thinking about how to set boundaries for your children, BEFORE the toxicity and poison from AH starts to harm them. I'm not trying to rush you or make you panic, just if you can get a book or if there is a counselor available you can talk to about how alcoholics affect children, that would be good. I think researching it will also help you figure out your own boundaries.
Nope, apparently he starts the job today. I've heard this story a few times before. He wrote me yesterday that he wants to see our middle daughter taking horseback riding lessons again. I told him to pay for them then.
Grrrr.... AH wrote that he in fact did not start that job today. He claims he has a different one that he starts on thurs. good thing I'm not reliant on him paying support though he really should. He doesn't sound like he has any intention of coming back here. Perhaps for the best but I better get some counseling for the kids. Then he asked me to put money in my ipass account which is in his name. No way am I dumb enough to attach my financial info to anything in his name. Time to start ignoring his emails, even the ones pertaining o home and kids, at least for a few. He wears me out
P.S. I love your sense of humor. Sometimes, if don't laugh, we would go crazy!!
Humor and sarcasm are the only vices I have left since I have no appetite for chocolate right now.
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