Grrrr.... AH wrote that he in fact did not start that job today. He claims he has a different one that he starts on thurs. good thing I'm not reliant on him paying support though he really should. He doesn't sound like he has any intention of coming back here. Perhaps for the best but I better get some counseling for the kids. Then he asked me to put money in my ipass account which is in his name. No way am I dumb enough to attach my financial info to anything in his name. Time to start ignoring his emails, even the ones pertaining o home and kids, at least for a few. He wears me out