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Dazed.....have you got a better idea? It seems that your own mental health would be the greater concern, right now....
This situation has been a long time coming....and, it sucks, but, it is the reality....
This situation has been a long time coming....and, it sucks, but, it is the reality....
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Originally Posted by dandylion 
Dazed.....have you got a better idea? It seems that your own mental health would be the greater concern, right now....
This situation has been a long time coming....and, it sucks, but, it is the reality....
This situation has been a long time coming....and, it sucks, but, it is the reality....
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Originally Posted by Dazedandconfus
oh boy we just had the biggest fight ever! Why is it the meeting people get all the praise, when IM the one that has been cleaning up his ****, saving his life, and taking his abuse???!!! AND he threatens me he’s gonna drink and it my fault!!!
Blaming you is his easy out. Why do you believe anything he is saying? It is all manipulative nonsense from someone who cannot accept any "blame" for screwing up his life and marriage.
Him saying nobody stands in the way of his recovery is bluster.
It would be great if it is true, but his "symptoms" of behavior clearly indicate he is still sick with addiction.
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
Good--this piece of crap calling himself a man isn't worth your life.
DC, please realize your worth has nothing to do with him or what he says or does.
Truly
DC, please realize your worth has nothing to do with him or what he says or does.
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Originally Posted by Dazedandconfus
he is being really mean...kinda like drinking talk
Trust your instinct.
Maybe his "singing while packing" was early buzz.
Now the mean phase is starting.
Either way, you are not a verbal punching bag DC.
I would leave even though it is unfair. Take the dog and get out for the night.
More is being revealed.
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
You / we already suspected he was drinking.
Trust your instinct.
I would leave even though it is unfair. Take the dog and get out for the night.
More is being revealed.
Trust your instinct.
I would leave even though it is unfair. Take the dog and get out for the night.
More is being revealed.
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Originally Posted by Dazedandconfus
he says I want him dead. I’ve done all I can to save his life!
So he is saying that to hurt you and still try for the guilt manipulation to get to stay. See it for what it is and not at all as a real thing.
Get away from this. It's hurting you.
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
Of course you have. But you aren't willing to let him stay and put up with his drunken abuse any longer.
So he is saying that to hurt you and still try for the guilt manipulation to get to stay. See it for what it is and not at all as a real thing.
Get away from this. It's hurting you.
So he is saying that to hurt you and still try for the guilt manipulation to get to stay. See it for what it is and not at all as a real thing.
Get away from this. It's hurting you.
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yep, stay out of poo range, including virtual poo
how about treating yourself to a nice take out from your favorite eatery, a hot shower, and a cuddle tonight with your pup?
This too shall pass, but not fast enough I know--
how about treating yourself to a nice take out from your favorite eatery, a hot shower, and a cuddle tonight with your pup?
This too shall pass, but not fast enough I know--
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
Of course you have. But you aren't willing to let him stay and put up with his drunken abuse any longer.
So he is saying that to hurt you and still try for the guilt manipulation to get to stay. See it for what it is and not at all as a real thing.
Get away from this. It's hurting you.
So he is saying that to hurt you and still try for the guilt manipulation to get to stay. See it for what it is and not at all as a real thing.
Get away from this. It's hurting you.
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
yep, stay out of poo range, including virtual poo
how about treating yourself to a nice take out from your favorite eatery, a hot shower, and a cuddle tonight with your pup?
This too shall pass, but not fast enough I know--
how about treating yourself to a nice take out from your favorite eatery, a hot shower, and a cuddle tonight with your pup?
This too shall pass, but not fast enough I know--
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
that's the ticket--good meal, good soak, good puppy love.
All will be well in the end. You just gotta go through to get there.
All will be well in the end. You just gotta go through to get there.
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