Partner relapsed after we were told I am going to miscarry

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Old 06-21-2013, 08:04 AM
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Hope you try Alanon meetings again...you could be very helpful...

if not get some of their literature hard copy or online....

His sobriety/relapse I think would be the least of your worries
while dealing with the loss of child and continuing medical issues....

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Old 06-21-2013, 09:42 AM
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I haven't been since January but I'm going tonight at 8pm. It's not the easiest for me but while I'm trying to turn this ongoing miscarraige into something with a "positive" outcome I thought now might be a good time while I'm in this frame of mind so yeah. Hopefully I won't find it too difficult.
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Old 06-21-2013, 07:13 PM
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Fantastic! Many of our members just listen during the meeting....I run at the mouth....I didn't go to Alanon tonight. Went to AA (same building) but I did check in with them.
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Old 06-25-2013, 08:52 PM
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Had the operation yesterday, hoping now I can move on from this nightmare. Just wanted to say thanks for the support. I know I've gone a bit OT and this hasn't always been directly linked to addiction so thanks for listening and responding.
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Thank you for the update, I'm so sorry for what you have been through. Please know you've been in my thoughts & prayers. I wish you comfort & peace this evening.
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Old 06-25-2013, 09:04 PM
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I think it has been directly associated to addiction, because it is how addiction becomes a part of everything.
Everything is consumed in the nuclear blast of addiction.
But, you can rebuild.
You can rebuild and renew.
Take the lessons learned and grow.
I have learned from you,
and I appreciate that you shared this difficult journey here.
I am really humbled by that.
You show great courage madam.
Keep it up, you will be a big winner always, to me.

Beth
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OT or not, we're here to offer support.
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Old 06-26-2013, 05:36 AM
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Not at all OT. Dealing with emotions and other things that affect them are very much part of recovery.

Hugs, I'm glad you have the physical part of this behind you.
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Old 06-28-2013, 02:21 PM
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I just wanted to send you love, I had a miscarriage a long long time ago and it was so painful. You are such a lovely thoughtful person always self deprecating and supportive in your posts, I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this sad loss.
Take care of yourself.
Much love xxx
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Old 06-28-2013, 02:42 PM
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Wow. HUGS!! HUGE GIANT HUGS!!!!! Keep on keeping strong!!!
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Old 06-28-2013, 03:09 PM
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Thanks everyone :-) helps a lot
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