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Old 08-23-2020, 11:41 AM
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Lockdown causing alcoholism.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-53807908
Good article, Kaily.

All too familiar story of the progression of alcoholism - vowing to not drink/do better the next day while beginning the drinking in the morning (or any time). It is not surprising that people suddenly isolated from family and social networks are pushed over the edge.

Thanks for the article, Kaily.
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Good night all. Will join the new weekenders thread when it opens. Take care xx
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Old 08-23-2020, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by SoberLeigh View Post
Good article, Kaily.

All too familiar story of the progression of alcoholism - vowing to not drink/do better the next day while beginning the drinking in the morning (or any time). It is not surprising that people suddenly isolated from family and social networks are pushed over the edge.

Thanks for the article, Kaily.
Yes it was on the news which I'm pleased about. Raises awareness.

Night Manta. Enjoy the seaside.
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Old 08-23-2020, 01:25 PM
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I was focusing on a photo of a red-bellied woodpecker up in the old gnarly apple tree behind my house' property.

Suddenly, a chirp/screech followed. I knew it was a chipmunk, after many years spent in the wood.

I've never seen one way up a tree, though. The little guy was warning the woodpecker that a giant was below their tree. LOL.



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Old 08-23-2020, 02:16 PM
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It's been an exhausting day for me emotionally, I'm drained now, my phone is red from having to ring so many people today and from people
ringing me too, but it needed to be done for me to get through this day.
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:29 PM
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Is everything okay, Reid? I know today is your Mom’s birthday.
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:31 PM
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Good night all. Will join the new weekenders thread when it opens. Take care xx
That's not until the end of the week tho Manta I hope you'll check in before then

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Old 08-23-2020, 02:40 PM
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That was a great article to read Kaily, thanks for sharing.

Lunar what a cute chipmunk. I haven’t ever seen one before. They look like a squirrel. I’ve seen them when I’ve travelled overseas. We don’t have either in Australia.

By the way, I’m now two months sober, just saying
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:41 PM
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Well done, Willow. Very happy for you.

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Old 08-23-2020, 02:43 PM
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Willow, so cool!

Ried, hope you are coping well.
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
That's not until the end of the week tho Manta I hope you'll check in before then

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I'm wondering if MantaLady thinks the Weekenders thread runs only over the weekend? I must admit when I first started posting in the weekend threads that was my thought...
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:51 PM
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Congratulations on two months Willow!
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:52 PM
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Thanks everyone for the congratulations!

I was thinking about what native Australian animals we have that are similar to squirrels, and we do have a quite a lot of different cute little marsupials.
I think probably the Australian squirrel glider is similar (in name at least) although they have flaps of haired skin between their front and back legs so that when they extend their legs out, they create “wings” to “fly” as they jump from branch to branch. There are other glider species too. The sugar glider is super cute too ❤️

This is a squirrel glider (not my photo, I googled for a picture)


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Is everything okay, Reid? I know today is your Mom’s birthday.
Yes, I'm ok, thanks. I found it difficult personally as a lot of you may know that my mother has pretty advanced dementia at this stage now. She was 80 today.
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:55 PM
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Reid, my heart feels for you
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Old 08-23-2020, 02:59 PM
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Old 08-23-2020, 03:16 PM
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Hang in there Reid.
We are all on your side.
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Old 08-23-2020, 03:24 PM
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I am so sorry, Reid; dementia is very hard to witness in a loved one. I cared for my Mom who suffered from dementia for over two years.

We are here for you.
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prayers, Reid

well done Willow
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Old 08-23-2020, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted by saoutchik View Post
When I quit for the final time it did feel different. Sometimes though it's hard to differentiate between how I felt at the time and how I think I felt with the benefit of hindsight. That's actually one of the reasons that I still post in Newcomers after 5 and a half plus years, to keep in touch with how it was for me then.
Memories are often just approximations of what actually happened. But having said that, I think those who have experienced that perception shift we are talking about agree that it was a powerful experience. In fact, the benefit of hindsight may even result in a better understanding of what we felt at the time. Being a new experience, we can't be expected to fully grasp what was happening. But I do remember the sense of "knowing" that I would never drink again.

I know some people in AA warn that you should not say you will never drink again. I get that; One should never underestimate the danger of overconfidence, and I have made that error before in other things. I disregarded the AA warning, because it actually felt like knowing, rather than overconfidence. And if it turned out that I was wrong, that would not have precluded me from picking up the pieces and learning from a mistake. So I didn't see anything wrong with expressing that feeling of absolute commitment.

Prior to that experience, I didn't feel commitment. I was just bumbling along in self disgust and wishing something positive would happen. I wasn't avoiding commitment really. I just had no idea what that was or what it felt like until I had that experience. You can't tell a newcomer how to find it, because if he hasn't had that epiphany, he can't really know what he's looking for. This has always been a frustration for me. How do you tell a person what it's supposed to feel like?

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