I have no one to talk to
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I can't believe i a am laying in bed with someone who wants me gone. In the last week he told me at least ten times to get out. But there he is laying there all happy and restful while i am awake and fuming at his insensitivities. Just an hour ago he said there was nothing saving us. Yet here i am in the bed. I wish my couch didn't hurt my back. I feel sick sleeping so close to someone who hates me.
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I agree with what melki said, you definitely need to see a lawyer. I don't really know your situation but I highly doubt that he can keep you from seeing your children.
Best wishes.
Best wishes.
I'm so sorry. What a painful mess.
I agree to see a lawyer before you move out. Given how aggressive he's planning to be about custody, I would check every major decision with an attorney from here on out.
Hang in there.
I agree to see a lawyer before you move out. Given how aggressive he's planning to be about custody, I would check every major decision with an attorney from here on out.
Hang in there.
Stay strong during all of this Earthsteps. Reach out to us if you feel like you are caving and drinking is becoming an option for you.
Bottom line, don't let your husband win. If you drink because of the situation, he wins. You deserve better, your kids deserve a sober mom who can reason and navigate her way through these temporary obstacles.
Congrats on your days sober, keep up the good work. Like the other's have said, you have us now. You're not alone in this.
Stay strong, stay positive and stick to your plan.
Bottom line, don't let your husband win. If you drink because of the situation, he wins. You deserve better, your kids deserve a sober mom who can reason and navigate her way through these temporary obstacles.
Congrats on your days sober, keep up the good work. Like the other's have said, you have us now. You're not alone in this.
Stay strong, stay positive and stick to your plan.
Hey ES. I know how you feel and just want to say I'm sorry this is happening but it WILL get better when you leave. You cannot begin to heal still around him. Thinking of you and I hope you check in soon xo
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