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Old 03-28-2015, 04:28 PM
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I know you told me you read this. Promise to come back tomorrow and read it all again. You have been there for me and many others. Let us be there for you. You are a kind gentle man and you are too good for this.
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Old 03-28-2015, 04:39 PM
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You're a very special part of this community Patman and always have wonderful advice. Please don't leave. Let us help you.
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Old 03-28-2015, 04:50 PM
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Holy cow my friends. Having a good cry. I attempted to read in details but I see in triple. But what I can read gives me hope. I will respond Tomorrow, to everyone. You took the time, I will as well.
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Old 03-28-2015, 04:51 PM
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rest up mate.
No more booze - day one tomorrow, ok?

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Old 03-28-2015, 04:57 PM
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I like how you shared AA is an option. Any help from someone who can teach us about our addiction and feed us some healthy, affective knowledge about it so that we can incorporate it in all areas of our life is a great start to remaining sober. Listen, learn, absorb and then apply that knowledge and recovery tools to you life so you don't and you wont reach for poison that keeps us sick in our addiction. I care.
What she said! ^^^

If you're still trying, you haven't failed Patman. (((Hug)))
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:00 PM
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I am sorry my friends. The pain seems to run to deep. I have tried so hard. But Announcing my fall downs are honest, yet killing me. I have tried so hard to help newcomers, I cannot do this any longer. Goodby. I will come back. Someday.
The alcohol typed that. ^^^ Not Thepatman! Tell the alcohol to shut the **** up!

I, personally need you here! You have always offered such kind words & support that has helped me get to almost 10 days.

Don't leave please. :-(
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:01 PM
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Good Going, man.

Go to bed and wake up to a New Day!

We're all sending you a Big ole hug.
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:01 PM
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sr has been a great lifeline in recovery for me and as i read others shares or post daily, i see that this place is also a great help for them too. Work on your recovery program for you and share your ups and downs with us here at and your meetings so that it can not only help you stay on track but in doing so is helping others when you least expect it to. Someone wrote on their post that they are for team sr. I liked seeing that and do feel like we are all members of team sr. get some rest, get rid of the poison then return with a willingness to take suggestions to guide you along in your desire to remain sober one day at a time. You can do this like many have said.
go team sr! Go patman!
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:04 PM
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Patman you are a wonderful contributor here at SR, all of us want to see you well and recovered. You are much more than your AV, you can deal with the anger and with recovery, lean on us for a while.
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:13 PM
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rest up mate. No more booze - day one tomorrow, ok? D
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:25 PM
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Sorry, but we are not going down without a fight, right. Let's scream.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hrpPd7T5jBQ
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Old 03-28-2015, 05:33 PM
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It is okay, you are going to be okay, hold your head high and know that you are human.
We are here for you and all trying to do this together....Put some time between you and your last drink, it will be better.
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Old 03-28-2015, 06:16 PM
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I understand the tough love. But it feeds the hulk. I am mad right now. Like a child, when this feeling comes Out I break things. And you know what? When It comes out I loose it and it feels like home. My anger is relentless.
Hi Patman,

When I first came here you were responsible for many laughs and smiles, extraordinarily helpful and are a good friend. You are a gentle and tender soul. That 'home' you are talking about is not really yours. Losing it and being angry and destructive is not really you at all.

Tomorrow is a new day. You can do this and we can do this. See you tomorrow!

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Old 03-28-2015, 06:35 PM
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Patman - I've just seen this now. I'm so sorry you're hurting. You are loved here - you mean so much to this community. I agree with the others, we all know you can kick this.
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Old 03-28-2015, 07:09 PM
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Hey Pat....been out and about today myself, hope you are resting up and getting ready for tomorrow. You are an integral cog in the SR community, use what you have learned to get back on track. We're here for you just like you've been here for us.
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Old 03-28-2015, 07:45 PM
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WTF? I go away for a few hours and I find this?

DUDE!
you wanna play a music video? I raise you!

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Old 03-28-2015, 09:04 PM
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What happened? What triggered you? What were your thoughts? What were you feeling?

Leave? NO, that's that "Hulk" talking.

I really appreciate your input and as Anna said, we are a family, for good and bad...

I believe in you. We really value you in this community and we are here for you, specially now that you need us.

I send you a hug!
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:24 PM
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Dear Patman,

You are such a support to others here. Let us support you. Please take care of yourself.
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:25 PM
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We fall down, and then we help each other stand up. Nothing to be ashamed of. Keep posting and keep making connections - you are so much more than your anger.
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:34 PM
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Pat, we are here for you. As simple as that, your SR family will help you fight this demon.

Get some rest my friend. Tomorrow is a brand new day!
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