thatdumbguy
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Log off. No one is "letting" you implode in public...but one thing is, and that's the booze. Maybe later when you see this one post, it can be the thing that makes you finally make the decision you've needed to make for a while. Much love and light to you, I hope to see you well soon.
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Originally Posted by Marcher13 
When you wake up Jeremy you need to call Northern Nevada Mental Health Services before you do anything else because that's what the judge said you must do. This is not something to think about, debate or put off. Whatever time you wake up phone them.
The number is 775-688-2001
From their Web pages:
If you hesitate and put it off then you must accept the consequences.
The number is 775-688-2001
From their Web pages:
If you hesitate and put it off then you must accept the consequences.
REREAD and FOLLOW THIS TOMORROW MORNING.
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Originally Posted by Marcher13
When you wake up Jeremy you need to call Northern Nevada Mental Health Services before you do anything else because that's what the judge said you must do. This is not something to think about, debate or put off. Whatever time you wake up phone them.
The number is 775-688-2001
The number is 775-688-2001
You're a father. Time to man up. Put down the shovel. Grab the rope.
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Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: TN
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Originally Posted by haennie
I'm sorry this will sound blunt, but I really need to say it. Jeremy, I think in these states, when you are drinking, not taking your meds, and telling us not to read and not to care, you are abusing your SR participation just like you are abusing alcohol. You post all these threads for attention, for instant gratification because you know you'll get a lot of responses. Then you go into a turmoil and say it's the end, you don't care, we should not care either, you want to be "deleted"... very typical alcohol-fueled reaction, on and off, on and off.
Listen, diffuse attention on an internet message board is not going to cure you and it seems like it's not helping you or making a difference at all at this point. Yes you may get some sort of instant twisted pain-mixed "pleasure" out of it, just like we drunks all get it from alcohol when we are deep into our addictions. But Jeremy, this is not the attention you need. It may be what you crave at this point because you have conditioned yourself to it over time and now you can anticipate that you will get the same attention (responses to your posts) over and over again. Because this is how SR works. People go out of their way and want to help, but you don't listen to help. You take it as yet another dose of... drug. And more.
I'm not saying this from anger or frustration at all and I would love to respond on your threads much more if I saw it did anything good to you... but what I see instead, sadly, is that these responses probably feed you in the wrong way. All good willing people with seemingly endless capacity and motivation to support you... but I think it feeds your addiction and you are seeking this as a drug. Believe me I know what I am saying: I used to do similar things, not the same way but similar. And I still do at times when I get out of control temporarily, so I know how hard it is.
You need serious medical attention and supervision, my friend. Of course you don't act and go for real help, because that would break your addictions and the identity you've created for yourself. But it is the only way out. Think about it when you have a clear moment. I'm with everyone else in that it's so great to see you regain your right attitude for short periods of time... and like all of us, I would love to see it cemented somehow and last. But it won't without very seriously changing your ways and without serious, real life help.
Listen, diffuse attention on an internet message board is not going to cure you and it seems like it's not helping you or making a difference at all at this point. Yes you may get some sort of instant twisted pain-mixed "pleasure" out of it, just like we drunks all get it from alcohol when we are deep into our addictions. But Jeremy, this is not the attention you need. It may be what you crave at this point because you have conditioned yourself to it over time and now you can anticipate that you will get the same attention (responses to your posts) over and over again. Because this is how SR works. People go out of their way and want to help, but you don't listen to help. You take it as yet another dose of... drug. And more.
I'm not saying this from anger or frustration at all and I would love to respond on your threads much more if I saw it did anything good to you... but what I see instead, sadly, is that these responses probably feed you in the wrong way. All good willing people with seemingly endless capacity and motivation to support you... but I think it feeds your addiction and you are seeking this as a drug. Believe me I know what I am saying: I used to do similar things, not the same way but similar. And I still do at times when I get out of control temporarily, so I know how hard it is.
You need serious medical attention and supervision, my friend. Of course you don't act and go for real help, because that would break your addictions and the identity you've created for yourself. But it is the only way out. Think about it when you have a clear moment. I'm with everyone else in that it's so great to see you regain your right attitude for short periods of time... and like all of us, I would love to see it cemented somehow and last. But it won't without very seriously changing your ways and without serious, real life help.
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Originally Posted by Dee74
I'd prefer people direct their remarks to TDG personally.
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Jeremy, what Marcher posted is spot on! This is not something you can refuse to do unless you wish to be held in contempt of court. It sounds like this judge is fed up and is giving you one last chance. Would you really rather spend the next few months in jail rather than in an inpatient facility that can help you?
I hope when you come to tomorrow, you will take Marcher's advice and make that call.
I hope when you come to tomorrow, you will take Marcher's advice and make that call.
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I think Dee is referring to using 3rd person
3rd person always sounds more...dismissive to me than direct posting.
I know I really appreciated the posts people made to me, not about me?
I don't want to derail the thread tho.
Carry on
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Dee, Yes I do understand, and my post was as much aimed at the group as it is to Jeremy. We are not helping by fueling the fire so to speak. That is my personal opinion and it's not necessary the gospel. There are no real way for me to say this to previous poster and at the same time letting Jeremy see it. I was not talking about him or with any ill intentions. I was merely using a third party to reiterate that he needs help. I guess the whole thing could have been re mediated by me pre phrasing it with Jeremy please read this: In any case, delete it if it's not appropriate instead of analyzing it. I'm not offended if it's deleted and we can move on. Thanks
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Something the judge said struck me as very true and I hope this morning it may hit you upside the head like a ton of bricks and ya quit screwing around and get YOUR ASS INTO ACTION AND GET INTO LOOOONG TERM INPATIENT:
"You're articulate and bright, but very deceitful. Your letter is a letter of excuses and trying to garner sympathy. Don't be that pathetic, your not that dumb. You will not manipulate me. You are manipulating yourself and your family too, stop it. "
It's a new day, yet the exact same choices you've hade for a long time:
Keep diggin your hole deeper or put down the shovel.
No more pity parties,dude. Get your ass on the phone and get into action.
"You're articulate and bright, but very deceitful. Your letter is a letter of excuses and trying to garner sympathy. Don't be that pathetic, your not that dumb. You will not manipulate me. You are manipulating yourself and your family too, stop it. "
It's a new day, yet the exact same choices you've hade for a long time:
Keep diggin your hole deeper or put down the shovel.
No more pity parties,dude. Get your ass on the phone and get into action.
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Repeat:
You're articulate and bright, but very deceitful. Your letter is a letter of excuses and trying to garner sympathy. Don't be that pathetic, your not that dumb. You will not manipulate me. You are manipulating yourself and your family too, stop it.
You're articulate and bright, but very deceitful. Your letter is a letter of excuses and trying to garner sympathy. Don't be that pathetic, your not that dumb. You will not manipulate me. You are manipulating yourself and your family too, stop it.
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Join Date: Jun 2012
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Hey Jeremy,
Just got up, and simply wanted to wish you good luck for today.
Rooting for you as always.
Here man, I'm out of words, I'll let you watch what the big guy has to say. Everyday when I get up, those words he says are on my mind. Leave no stone unturned Jeremy, and trust yourself.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EyhOmBPtGNM
Just got up, and simply wanted to wish you good luck for today.
Rooting for you as always.
Here man, I'm out of words, I'll let you watch what the big guy has to say. Everyday when I get up, those words he says are on my mind. Leave no stone unturned Jeremy, and trust yourself.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EyhOmBPtGNM
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Hi TDG
If you read any of my previous posts you'll know I'm a supporter of you
I 'm an even bigger supporter of your daughter who has no say in any of these threads
She only exists, in part, because of you TDG. step up dude
If you read any of my previous posts you'll know I'm a supporter of you
I 'm an even bigger supporter of your daughter who has no say in any of these threads
She only exists, in part, because of you TDG. step up dude
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morning Jeremy.
I hope you use the information Marcher was kind enough to post for you.
Enough is enough. Pull up the big boy pants and call that number. This is your last chance here friend. It's not too late. Have you made it worse? yah, unfortunately you have. HOWEVER, it isn't too late to call and start getting this sh1t in motion.
Come on.
I hope you use the information Marcher was kind enough to post for you.
Enough is enough. Pull up the big boy pants and call that number. This is your last chance here friend. It's not too late. Have you made it worse? yah, unfortunately you have. HOWEVER, it isn't too late to call and start getting this sh1t in motion.
Come on.
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Originally Posted by Marcher13
When you wake up Jeremy you need to call Northern Nevada Mental Health Services before you do anything else because that's what the judge said you must do. This is not something to think about, debate or put off. Whatever time you wake up phone them.
The number is 775-688-2001
From their Web pages:
If you hesitate and put it off then you must accept the consequences.
The number is 775-688-2001
From their Web pages:
If you hesitate and put it off then you must accept the consequences.
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