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Old 10-07-2016, 06:32 PM
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Evening Misfits! It's a quiet Friday night since DD is at her dad's I would be in bed now, but I have to wait until they come by to grab her overnight bag. I hope it's soon. All I want to do is get under the covers and read. I'm reading "Mommy Doesn't Drink Here Anymore." so far I like it. I got most of the way through Drunk Mom, but it was really triggering, so I put it down.

The clown incident at my daughter's school was resolved. The police were able to trace the social media post to a student at the school. I don't know what the repercussions were, but I have a feeling the student is being expelled. Making threats to student's safety, police on post at the school for the day... serious stuff.

MITA - glad you kiddo is okay. had to be hard to be so far away from her.

Congrats, Dee!!

Hi everyone else!!
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Old 10-07-2016, 06:41 PM
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Made it through a drama free Friday. 3-day weekend coming up. Focusing on being a little better each day.

See you all tomorrow.
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Old 10-07-2016, 07:08 PM
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Dee, 9 ½ years, just wow. Excellently done. Imagine if I had figured it out back when CarolD first reached out to me.
If I'd knuckled down from the time I knew I had to stop I might have 20 years now.

Our journey takes what it takes Thirteenth. As long as I hoped I could control my drinking, I tried to.

That being said, I think you do reach a point where you know this can't go on, and that's where the action part of the equation kicks in?

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Old 10-07-2016, 07:12 PM
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Thankfully closing out day 47.
This wedding stuff is tough. Being IN the wedding more so. Behind the scenes, prep...drinks are everywhere. I saw the bar set up for the actual wedding tomorrow night. Jeeezum.

Long long day tomorrow with limited phone access. No pockets in these bridesmaid dresses.
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Old 10-07-2016, 07:19 PM
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Clearly - I read both of those books. Drunk Mom was intense! Happy reading, you will prob find Mommy Doesn't Drink here Anymore a little easier if I remember correctly. Sometimes I get that one mixed up with Diary of an Alcoholic Housewife.

Bobbie speaking of books did you read/finish Vargas' book?
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
If I'd knuckled down from the time I knew I had to stop I might have 20 years now.

Our journey takes what it takes Thirteenth. As long as I hoped I could control my drinking, I tried to.

That being said, I think you do reach a point where you know this can't go on, and that's where the action part of the equation kicks in?

D
Depressingly, I know all this but it seems to bounce off me. I could have ten years. Maybe five or eight if I slipped. I fear reaching the point where I have to stop. I want to do it because I want to and I've yet to find that balance. Addiction at its worst. I'm not giving up trying. Just a little hiatus while I try some more.

I don't want to control it at present. I want to stop it. I'm sure I'll shift into wanting to be able to have a drink or two here and there once I get off the daily, but I can't worry about that until I get to days and weeks off. I hate being a person who chooses to drink over being sober, but I'm still somehow not there yet.
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Old 10-07-2016, 08:17 PM
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I wish I knew what to say to convince you to act Thirteenth,

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Old 10-07-2016, 09:31 PM
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I wish I knew what to say to convince you to act Thirteenth,

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Same. You really are worth the effort, 13th.
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Old 10-08-2016, 03:16 AM
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13TH - to yourself

or WITH HELP.


we are all alcoholics. We share, we help and support. We offer strength in unity. We are strong. We are here, you are an alcoholic....funny- SO AM I ! Come on you- join us- do not go this alone. Any journey is better with company.
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Morning all! Cool and rainy here today. Sipping some startin fluid and contemplating a run.
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13th- my little show above is meant to be helpful, hopeful and encouraging. Definitely NOT judgemental. God knows- I am the last one who is qualified to do that. PJ
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Lots of coffee here....a nice rainy day for an outdoor ceremony. Bleh! Lol.
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Old 10-08-2016, 04:43 AM
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Thirteenth - I wish there were magical words of wisdom to offer. I am glad you're here and not giving up. Love you.

Apple - have fun today and stay dry!!
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Old 10-08-2016, 06:44 AM
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Good morning, class! My first sober wedding in the books. It was a beautiful ceremony. There were 2 couples at our table that shouldn't have driven home, but, not my problem.

Nothing pressing in the horizon for me.

Have a great Saturday everyone. Don't drink, it's dumb.
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Good 4 U, B. PJ
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Old 10-08-2016, 08:25 AM
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Bobbie -= YAY!!! Proud of you!

Apple - Keep strong, play the tape through and all.

13th - I really do understand your struggle. I feel much in the same boat. I flip flop and have been for years. It's miserable, though. Isn't it? I had a close call last night. Was in bed reading and then BOOM! got up, got dressed, was ready to jump in my car. Thankfully I had to use the bathroom before leaving, and I paused, looked in the mirror, and changed my mind. Went back to bed and am waking up sober today instead. IT IS HARD. But it is a worthwhile fight. We're all rooting for you, 13th.

Off to the dentist this morning. I stopped going for some 5 years, back to taking care of myself.

Have a great sober Saturday, everyone. Hang in there to those who are struggling today. I'm among you, too!!

Love you all
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Just getting done w/ work....my car wants to automatically stop at the Pub like it did before.....gonna get some food instead....will check back in when I get home
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Old 10-08-2016, 09:28 AM
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Good morning everybody. Hope everyone is enjoying a nice start to the weekend. Beginning day 8 here.
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Hi everyone! Quick check in! Don't drink! It's poison! Love u!
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Good morning everybody. Hope everyone is enjoying a nice start to the weekend. Beginning day 8 here.
Great job BBG!!!!!!!!
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