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Old 11-26-2010, 06:54 PM
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Happy Friday, everyone! 7 days today. I'm suffering a bit from the "poor me's," and not sure what that is about, but I'm not going to give in to it. Doing a memorial 5K tomorrow morning, so I need to get to bed soon. Hope you all are doing well!
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Old 11-26-2010, 07:03 PM
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I think that's pretty normal Lulu - good for you not giving it any credence
Good luck on your run

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Old 11-26-2010, 08:15 PM
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First Friday - day five. Today I came clean to my wife about everything I've been hiding for years related to my disease. It was a very exhausting day for both of us, but we are going to sleep well tonight. Tomorrow we will be just a tiny bit better.
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Old 11-27-2010, 01:07 AM
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Welcome to our Daily Suppport crew

Yes, you can win over alcohol
many of us are doing just that!

Blessings to you and your wife
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Old 11-27-2010, 02:34 AM
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Many congratulations on a whole week, Lulu. That is truly magnificent.

And I think we have phytoman and Sdsurf2011 both on day 14 today and graduating tonight!! Looking forward to seeing you both over in "under 30" tomorrow. Great job!!

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Old 11-27-2010, 03:33 AM
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Welcome to the family RGB! Glad you've joined us.


I am pretty sure these "social drinker" thoughts will pass in time

Yes, they will, at least they did for me. It was somewhere between four to six months sober when I had the sudden realization that I was no longer thinking about drinking. It was a very freeing feeling and has only gotten stronger in the last few months.

So keep at it, all. Staying sober can be hard work but will become the norm after some time.

Good morning all.
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Old 11-27-2010, 03:35 AM
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Welcome RGB
I hope today will prove to be a turning point for you

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Old 11-27-2010, 04:19 AM
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Originally Posted by RGB View Post
First Friday - day five. Today I came clean to my wife about everything I've been hiding for years related to my disease.
That's great. I still can't find the words to say to my husband! Don't think he'd get it anyway! (he hides wine in the house for me even when I've said I don't want it)

Last night was awful, we went out for something to eat, came back to half a dozen teenagers in the attic (half cut!), my husband opened his beer and wine sat down quite happily and got stuck in! My middle son ended up really drunk - then he wanted to leave the house so I told him if he went (it was 11pm) not to come back whilst he was drunk, so he's still out somewhere (he's 18 btw).

Fed up today and its Saturday and I'm dreading tonight!!!!! sorry for banging on guys.......
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Old 11-27-2010, 04:46 AM
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Lulu, congrats on one week.

RGB, that is a huge step. From my own experience it helped tremendously when I owned up to my wife.

Zuri, hang in there....stay strong through the tough times.

Phytoman and SD...day 14 for you two. CONGRATULATIONS...see you tomorrow in the under 30 club....that is awesome.

Have a great day everyone.
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Old 11-27-2010, 04:55 AM
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well done guys wether its a day or a week or 40 days,just keep it up.its day 5 for me cant believe it its flu by,im delighted with myself,just got keep going dont look back,best luck over wkend guys,and also enjoy a sober wkendxxxxx
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Old 11-27-2010, 05:07 AM
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Way to go on day 5 Irish!
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Old 11-27-2010, 07:43 AM
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Zuri - I'm impressed that you are strong enough to keep sober surrounded by alcohol and other drinkers. Keep it up it's worth it!

SD - Day 14! Whodda thunk?

Coop and NAT - Thanks for the encouragement and example. See you soon in the under 30 club!

irish - congrats on 5 days! It's a good feeling, isn't it?

Dee, Carol, and least - It's good to get the support of you longtimers! Thanks for all you do!

RGB - Keep taking those positive steps! Congrats!

Slowtrain (my wife) - she hasn't posted on this thread yet, but she quit with me and has been a strength to me. She is amazing, and much stronger than I. If you see her on these boards, say 'hi'.
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Old 11-27-2010, 08:16 AM
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Phytoman, that is awesome..I saw her post over on the class of Nov. thread this morning. Congrats to both of you...that is good stuff.
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Old 11-27-2010, 10:02 AM
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Stay strong everyone. Stay focused on 'today' cause it's really all we've got - just today. I'm getting so psyched up over my one year sober coming up - especially since I never thought I could do it. But the help and support here (and occasional asskickings) helped me tremendously and here I am, nearly a year sober and happier than I've ever been. And I did it just like you're doing it: one day at a time.

(((hugs))) to all...
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Old 11-27-2010, 10:03 AM
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Day 14! Amazing isn't it, phytoman?

See you all tomorrow in the 30 days and under thread!

Thanks guys,

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Old 11-27-2010, 10:05 AM
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Stay strong everyone. Stay focused on 'today' cause it's really all we've got - just today. I'm getting so psyched up over my one year sober coming up - especially since I never thought I could do it. But the help and support here (and occasional asskickings) helped me tremendously and here I am, nearly a year sober and happier than I've ever been. And I did it just like you're doing it: one day at a time.

(((hugs))) to all...


one year. you are an inspiration, least. awesome job.
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Old 11-27-2010, 10:26 AM
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one year. you are an inspiration, least. awesome job.


I am only giving back that which was so freely and lovingly given to me.
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Old 11-27-2010, 02:42 PM
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It's great to see this thread so alive

I'll look out for slowtrain phyto

Zuri - sorry things are rough - I hope you find the time and place to have that talk, but regardless, you'll always find support here if nowhere else

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Old 11-27-2010, 04:31 PM
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Sdsurfn2011........
congratulations!
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Old 11-27-2010, 04:35 PM
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Wow! 2 other winners.....Well done!

phytoman.........

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