cinderellawkids

Yes, I know. Im not what iffing it though, not this time. I still hold out hope he'll get better, but truly it would have to be a long time of doing well and supporting us, and I dont really see that happening.

I didnt go by there to get the things I needed yesterday. Im going to wait until Friday.

Lovestoomuch

Ok peeps!! Nana Loves is in the house.
I just got back from the store. I don't understand the english kids speak these days. I walked past a young man and he says "what up baby G?" I thought "wtf did he just call me?? How did he know I was going to be a grandma??" Well.........I went to my handy dandy "urban dictionary" and found it. Now......I'm officially down wit da lingo. How cool is dat??

cinderellawkids

Anvil, you didnt insult me either. Ive always been wishywashy with this subject, but this time its different.

I think back and March 28 he took the kids money in the am and then stole from my debit card that night, April 4 he took the car and didnt return. I wouldnt let him come back. April 13 he showed up in am drunk and started yelling at his mom and tossed the coffee, April 19 he came in in the middle of the night, APril 20 we got into a fight and he kicked in my bedroom door, April 21 he showed up at the back door early drunk and kept banging, the police escorted him away and April 27 he got paid $380 and told me and then made himself scarce.
NOPE that was a busy month, even residing apart, Im at my enough is enough place and dont even feel sorry for him

teke

so loves, where did you find this urban dictionary, i'm curious to know what did he call you, was it baby girl or what? half the time, i don't know what my kids are saying i'm always having to ask "what dat mean"

cinderellawkids

When my 9 year old talks like taht I get on to him. Explaining that he has to talk clear english to adults. He hates that

Lovestoomuch

The urban dictionary can be found on line. lol
Crazy..........I'm too old to be a "baby girl" so I don't know what he called me.........but I'll take it. heehee

teke

i think i know whats wrong with my room, i think i've been trying to claim the wrong side of the bedroom as my space, maybe i'll get the kids to help me switch sides and see if that will do it, then can i tell my ah to come home? ................

just kidding, i thinkLOL

cinderellawkids

You had me going there for a minute Teke.

My little one has been sleeping with me to cure the empty side syndrome, although night before last I swear I ended up sleeping sideway at the bottom of the bed, not sure how that happened

Can you rearrange the rooma nd move the bed? That might help

teke

cinder, no i can't move the bed and change the room around alone, its a really huge heavy bed, i think maybe the 3 or us can push it closer to the one side of the room and i'll have more space to walk around, i hadn't been that long moved here and when i had it set up, i had ah in mind with the walking space, but at that time, i choose the wrong side, now that he's gone anvil, i do have to whole room and now i can see that maybe i like the other side better. so after grocery shopping, i think i might just change it to see if i like it better, i need another pair of curtains, if i'm gonna move the bed, right now, the headboard is higher than the window so i didn't need to put curtains up on that side really, cause, the bed is in front of that window, kind of glad it is, it feels safe that way.

now if only i can take a break from sr to go to the store and possibly get another pair, i'm doing good and may just go ahead and move back in there. well time to go get one from school, be back shortly.

cinderellawkids

I didnt mean alone. I meant with the kids.

Go to store get curtins, ahve fun rearranging. Almost amkes me want to paint my room some color AH would completely despise

cinderellawkids

Everyones leaving me and I have 45 minutes to go. No fair. Then I got to get kids, go grab crickets for that no longer fat frog and get my butt home

Lovestoomuch

Does anyone want to hear my idea?? Probably not, but here it is. Lets all go to Teke's and have a room-re-arranging party. We don't need no stinkin men!! I thought I saw a little muscle in my right arm one time. I can move some stuff!!.........and bring the diet coke......or sweet tea........

cinderellawkids

Sounds good, then everyone come down to my house to help me paint.

For years I didnt do things when Ah was away because he'd feel bad he didnt ahve a part. Now I want to do everything we ever talkied about and he never moved on.

Jewelz

wow I start working and I miss a whole bunch of stuff on here. I am trying to catch but will try to reply to some stuff.

Teke when moving your room around just becareful with your back. I like the idea of having your kids help out.

Cindi, my daughter used to sleep with me to when my abf was away. In the begining I always liked the comfort but after a while I missed having my privacy.

Loves, I hate the ghetto talk, or teen language whatever it is. I know I am getting old cause I would talk like that all the time. My daughter has attempted to talk to me in that way. I told her that its not polite to speak to her parents or any adult in that manner. She never did again to my knowledge.

Anvil, I never dyed my hair before... well thats a lie I did it once spent over a hundred dollars or rather my ex did for mothers day. I didnt even notice the difference the lady at the salon took me outside with a mirror so I could see it in the sun... pitiful

Jewelz

Cindi, I am still around for another 34 minutes.

I have been feeling the way you guys feel I want to paint. There were so many changes we were planning to do to our home.. then the relapse.. nothing has happened.

I want color in my house but I am scared but I think I am gonna go to home depot. they have a secition called oops paint and its $5. a gallon. This is the paint that the customer leaves or returns so instead of them throwing it out you could buy it for 5 bucks and know what the color is. I think thats what I am gonna do.

Lovestoomuch

That's the reason I DID do things while the ex was away..............so he'd clearly see I didn't need his stupid ass messing up my beautiful creations. I painted the entire exterior of our home.....and the interior.......and I dry walled........and wall papered.....and again..........who needs the all mighty "Look what I did".........sure buddy.......thanks for remembering to remind me to take care of that. HMPF!!

cinderellawkids

Good luck Jewelz. Here they have awful colors in the oops department, but Ill start checking there too. I think Im probably gone start with teh boys rooms weve been there 5 months and Ive done nothing. Garrett's bed is still at the old house as well as a bunk bed frame DArius double mattress came from. I want Darius to have his own room and privacy, have so much too do watching classified and garage sales. I have no pictures on the wall yet. Was going to order froma site Anvil gave me but then AH quit his job, therefore I receive no money I can use for those things. AHHH some day.

We gotta stop waiting around for these guys

cinderellawkids

I think thats why I want to do it, and since I have no control over the other house things getting done, I have to take control of something.

Bought some cute little fishy decor things at dockside last week need to get them up on the wall

cinderellawkids

Ive always wondered living in NYC, how much each week do you have to budget for transportation. Id think taxis are expensive. What is car service?

Jewelz

It's true why should we wait for them to get things done. Then when things dont get done we get resentful about it and they are oblivious or just dont give a flying crap about it.

I had luck at the oops department before. But really I think any paint would be better than what I have on my walls. It hasnt been painted in about 4 years... yuk