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Old 08-23-2015, 06:18 PM
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Old 08-23-2015, 07:23 PM
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peace to you, Melissa.
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Old 08-23-2015, 07:34 PM
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Its a cold and its a broken hallelujah.
 
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I think of you both, many times a day. Sending love.
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Old 08-23-2015, 08:08 PM
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Wow! Thanks for sharing Melissa. You know that you will never be alone. We are always here. Stop in and release or read because so many of us care about you. You are an important part of our world. I hope coming in here and writing helps.
I also hope Dave and Lucy are good snugglers.
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:04 PM
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Old 08-24-2015, 04:31 AM
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Thank you for sharing that Melissa. I am glad he had some closure with his brother. And bless you for being there every minute of it. We all stand ready to help you through this time. It is understandable that you feel a bit scared and alone. Reach out to us as needed. Take good care.
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Old 08-24-2015, 05:08 AM
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Yesterday my sister said something to me in conversation that sounded kind of funny. And I repeated it. Then I said, "That would be a great title for a song."
I already know you know what I already know. I told her I would write a song for it.

And in a more profound meaning of words, "I need more oxygen" clearly is a story line for me. I'm sure Robbie is getting all the oxygen he wants now.

A wise and compassionate man who will not be forgotten.
He was ready and had them come for him. His last act of kindness and love. He stayed Robbie Robot to the very end.

I'm sure there was silent communication between Robbie and Melissa. A kind that few experience in life. A oneness of thought and feelings.
I already know you know what I already know.
Thank You for sharing that with us Melissa.

I Need More Oxygen. I'm going to remember that too. My eyes are welling...
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Old 08-24-2015, 06:05 AM
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Old 08-24-2015, 06:11 AM
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Old 08-24-2015, 08:52 AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you, Melissa. I hope that you will continue to share stories about you and Robby and your wonderful relationship, when you feel able to it. Robby was such an interesting fellow who left a big mark here on SR and your relationship seems extraordinary. Please keep him alive for us in your stories and memories, if that is something that would bring comfort to you. xo
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Old 08-24-2015, 09:22 AM
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Hey, Melissa!
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Old 08-24-2015, 12:05 PM
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Wow Melissa, you are indeed a very special person. Thankyou so much for sharing all that. You may have helped other people dealing with the same scenario to see how it is to live ones life truly authentically until the very end. Robby was a great guy and you enabled him to be who he wanted to be, and to have what he wanted to have, right to the end.

You are in my thoughts often.



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Old 08-24-2015, 01:03 PM
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Hi thank you for sharing that. I miss him. I can't imagine what it's like for you. You are never alone here.
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Old 08-24-2015, 02:19 PM
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Melissa, don't ever feel alone. We're here and I'm sure Robby is keeping tabs on you. Thanks so much for sharing his last night. He lived with so much grace.
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Old 08-24-2015, 07:48 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing with us Melissa
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Old 08-24-2015, 10:42 PM
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Thank you Melissa for sharing. I've been thinking of you and Robby often.

I'm sending love and comfort you're way and forever an ear to listen.
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Old 08-26-2015, 03:21 PM
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Wow... What a not good day I had today.

Please allow me to ramble.
I am in Canada. I am closing on a condo in the U.S. on Monday. I don't have to be there in person, thank God. However, I need to wire the money from here to there. Therefore, I need to go to the bank here. Right now the exchange rate is .75 U.S. For every $1. Canadian. I am terrified that when I go to the bank, I find that I don't have enough money and I can't find the money Rob moved on that last day.
I also need a certified death certificate for my lawyer in the U.S. because Rob and I both were owners of the house that is being sold on Tuesday. Ontario has a 6-8 week wait for a death certificate.

I am an anxious wreck. I am totally alone here and spent the whole day isolating in bed, sleeping on and off. I am so discouraged with myself. Rob understood these traits of self sabotage of mine. I am trying to will myself to go to the 24 hour market just so I can see another person.

I'm sorry, guys. I'm a mess.
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Old 08-26-2015, 03:26 PM
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I will pray that the Lord gives you a supernatural sense of wisdom to know what steps to take next and a clear head. I will pray that there is some loophole about the death certificate.

I will pray that things unfold for you in an unusually good way.

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Old 08-26-2015, 03:32 PM
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((((Melissa))))

Can you email your lawyer and get some advice about it? I always find when I'm anxious about doing things I can usually face an email. And that's what your lawyer is there for (or should be)....to help you.

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Old 08-26-2015, 03:42 PM
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I'm praying for you and sending good juju Melissa.
I hope you can sort this out.

I hope you make it to the Market too - it's really important you look after yourself

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