I'm Drunk And Staying Drunk......
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Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Wisconsin
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Your post, is a not subtle cry for attention, oh poor me, I'm such a lost soul.
Check back when you want to get sober. I think you want people to beg you to not do what you are already planning to do, which is what all of us sick alcoholics do, demand others attention and then **** all over their kindness.
You say you don't care about others suffering, but you will absolutely get plenty of your own until you are willing to be honest with yourself, and those around you.
Many many people go out and end up dead. I cannot be diplomatic about this.
Check back when you want to get sober. I think you want people to beg you to not do what you are already planning to do, which is what all of us sick alcoholics do, demand others attention and then **** all over their kindness.
You say you don't care about others suffering, but you will absolutely get plenty of your own until you are willing to be honest with yourself, and those around you.
Many many people go out and end up dead. I cannot be diplomatic about this.
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Queensland, Australia
Posts: 115
I'm sorry but I'm going to say it..... What a cop out, do you think you're the only one with pain????
There are people out there who deal with murder or rape of their child or other loved ones without turning to drink to "numb the pain."
That's just an excuse to start drinking again and I think you know it.
Don't expect me to feel sorry for you.
There are people out there who deal with murder or rape of their child or other loved ones without turning to drink to "numb the pain."
That's just an excuse to start drinking again and I think you know it.
Don't expect me to feel sorry for you.
Last edited by Talana; 05-25-2013 at 09:56 PM. Reason: Error
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Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Gulf Coast, Florida USA
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Title - I'm getting drunk and staying drunk
[/QUOTE]The truth is I don't have the 100% desire to stay sober.
Just1 you are not ready. No one could say anything to me until I was ready. And until then they were just wasting there time. And I think you know that you are just wasting people's time here. you said it yourself
If someone is ready nothing we say can be wrong.
And if they are not ready, nothing we can say can be right.
Please come back when you are ready Just1. Until then no one can help you, and there are plenty who do want help and I see no benefit in you coming in here with your dramatic thread titles. Your drinking is a trigger for some and it isn't helping anyone including yourself. . I am not trying to be mean Just1 but your posts do seem to be more of the attention seeking then the help seeking variety. (Title - I'm drunk and staying drunk )
Either you are ready or you are not. You know what you have to do if you are. Something worked for 1 year. You said you just slipped a couple weeks ago. You are not willing, so you don't really want this and just want to blame society.
Anyways there is no point in trying to talk sense into someone who is drinking. I wouldn't go into a bar and do it, don't know why I am trying to do it now. Take care and prayers ur way
[/QUOTE]The truth is I don't have the 100% desire to stay sober.
Just1 you are not ready. No one could say anything to me until I was ready. And until then they were just wasting there time. And I think you know that you are just wasting people's time here. you said it yourself
If someone is ready nothing we say can be wrong.
And if they are not ready, nothing we can say can be right.
Please come back when you are ready Just1. Until then no one can help you, and there are plenty who do want help and I see no benefit in you coming in here with your dramatic thread titles. Your drinking is a trigger for some and it isn't helping anyone including yourself. . I am not trying to be mean Just1 but your posts do seem to be more of the attention seeking then the help seeking variety. (Title - I'm drunk and staying drunk )
Either you are ready or you are not. You know what you have to do if you are. Something worked for 1 year. You said you just slipped a couple weeks ago. You are not willing, so you don't really want this and just want to blame society.
Anyways there is no point in trying to talk sense into someone who is drinking. I wouldn't go into a bar and do it, don't know why I am trying to do it now. Take care and prayers ur way
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Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Louisana
Posts: 6,752
Justfor1, I know it is frustrating and painful but please don't give up, because you will finally quit if you don't. It took me a long time to finally get 2 years 10 months sober. Addiction is a very powerful disease, but you can overcome it. Justfor1, never give up. Rootin for ya. 
lillyknitting
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Loughton, Essex, England
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Originally Posted by Justfor1 
I'm going to be taking a break from SR. I am currently drunk & plan on drinking every day until I end up in the hospital. The truth is I don't have the 100% desire to stay sober. My emotional pain is too great & I should not have to live with that pain. For all the consequences alcohol causes it still numbs my pain & I think it's worth it. I use to have values & care about people. Today I have none. I do not care about others pain. I am truely a lost soul.
lillyknitting
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Loughton, Essex, England
Posts: 638
Originally Posted by Talana
I'm sorry but I'm going to say it..... What a cop out, do you think you're the only one with pain????
There are people out there who deal with murder or rape of their child or other loved ones without turning to drink to "numb the pain."
That's just an excuse to start drinking again and I think you know it.
Don't expect me to feel sorry for you.
There are people out there who deal with murder or rape of their child or other loved ones without turning to drink to "numb the pain."
That's just an excuse to start drinking again and I think you know it.
Don't expect me to feel sorry for you.
Recovering
Join Date: May 2012
Location: UK
Posts: 1,361
Keeping you in prayer Justfor1. You are precious. At your core you bear the image of God and no-one and nothing, not even drinking, can take that away from you. It will always call you to a more fulfilled life.
God bless you Justfor1, and may God bless and heal all those hurting and in pain.
May the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ come to you, and remain with you.
God bless you Justfor1, and may God bless and heal all those hurting and in pain.
May the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ come to you, and remain with you.
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Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 474
Originally Posted by Elisabeth888
Maybe you have are not ready to stop drinking and have not hit your bottom yet. I pray that it will not be a hard bottom. I like that Eminem song that says something like "I hit my bottom so hard I bounced twice". Well, I hope you don't do that.
Keep us updated and let us know you are okay at least.
Keep us updated and let us know you are okay at least.
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Join Date: Dec 2010
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Day 2 of my drinking & I'm already failing at it. I woke up in the back seat of my car after driving to McDonalds because I was hungry. I wasn't even sure where I was & don't remember driving. They don't sell booze until 11AM today. I have pain in my right side. I don't think my bender will last long.
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Join Date: May 2012
Location: UK
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Originally Posted by Justfor1
Day 2 of my drinking & I'm already failing at it. I woke up in the back seat of my car after driving to McDonalds because I was hungry. I wasn't even sure where I was & don't remember driving. They don't sell booze until 11AM today. I have pain in my right side. I don't think my bender will last long.
Please don't drive. It's not worth risking harming, or even killing, others or yourself just for alcohol. Alcohol really is not worth living or dying for. I think you know that deep down - you know a drinking binge will not help you. It's ultimately empty of any real satisfaction. It's really easy to get drunk, but it offers nothing of substance in return.
God bless +
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