what to do..... - Page 3 - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Go Back   SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information >
Register Blogs FAQ Members List Calendar Arcade Mark Forums Read





Reply
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 11-18-2014, 11:08 AM   #41 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: In Gods Love♥
Posts: 44
well, here we go again with another lie! Called the hotel that he is "supposedly" in and guess what?! You got it! He isn't there! UGH!
alwaysthere4u is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-21-2014, 07:52 AM   #42 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: In Gods Love♥
Posts: 44
Got a call from my nephew last night at my mother's house/his grandmothers. Told me he only had $15 on his food stamp card. I asked him when are you getting it refilled. He said either Saturday or Monday. Ok - I said - you just need to be tight with what you have left over. Box of oatmeal, bread, milk, luncheon meat. That should be about $11 right there. I did not offer any money or nothing. He said his unemployment check got screwed up again. (Seriously?! Again interesting whatever!) I asked him did you call them up. In a sarcastic voice he said of course I did - I said f ine - I was just asking. I then gave my mother the phone and I could tell he was telling her had little money for food and once again I told her tell him no! NO! NO! NO! She didn't say anything to him about just went "oh, ok etc." She asked him if he wanted to come home and he said no. I told her after she got off the phone, that's h is choice mom, he is an adult. I could tell it upset her. My God, why not she is 86 years old worrying about her grandson. I hate it that he is trying to use sympathy with her. But, going through counseling now, and with all of ya'lls help - I REFUSE TO ENABLE HIM! I'll pray for him but financially, NO! I think with all of ya'lls help and counseling, I have finally come to realization, I cannot help him, he HAS TO DO IT HIMSELF. I have to take care of myself, my mother and my husband. I have to live my life not his.

Once again, thank you all for words! It has truly helped me. I LOVE THIS SITE!
alwaysthere4u is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to alwaysthere4u For This Useful Post:
Aysha (11-21-2014)
Reply

Tags
heroine


Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off




All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:42 AM.