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Join Date: Apr 2007
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Hi HAS
I moved all your posts here so you'll get more help.
I don;t think you're stupid or weak, just addicted. It's not the same thing.
I don;t think drinking really gives you relief tho - you don;t seem very relieved to , you know?
You seemed a lot happier when you were sober this year- how did you do it then?
D
I moved all your posts here so you'll get more help.
I don;t think you're stupid or weak, just addicted. It's not the same thing.
I don;t think drinking really gives you relief tho - you don;t seem very relieved to , you know?
You seemed a lot happier when you were sober this year- how did you do it then?
D
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Join Date: May 2018
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Hi HAS
Sorry you are having a rough time. I’m wondering if you have access to a counselor or a doctor? I’m not quite sure what you’re saying if you’re still actively drinking or if you have a few days sober.
If you’ve had some time sober in the past, you know how good it feels and you know you can do it. You know you can do it because you came here and you posted.
Bigs hugs surrounding you.
((((HAS))))
Sorry you are having a rough time. I’m wondering if you have access to a counselor or a doctor? I’m not quite sure what you’re saying if you’re still actively drinking or if you have a few days sober.
If you’ve had some time sober in the past, you know how good it feels and you know you can do it. You know you can do it because you came here and you posted.
Bigs hugs surrounding you.
((((HAS))))
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Join Date: Oct 2017
Posts: 635
Thank you Dee! Whoa I have my own thread . I have to go to work now and I’m terribly hang over my hands shake and only two months in this job and I hate it.
I wonder why why my life is only getting worse and no better.
I wonder why why my life is only getting worse and no better.
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Join Date: Oct 2017
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I stayed sober last year by resisting the urges to drink the first weekends and the going to AA every nigh after work. I just hate my life so much and it is my work life I hate since getting fired from I job I hated last year I just found one after many months unemployed and I hate it too. What’s wrong with me!
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Join Date: Sep 2010
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Originally Posted by Healthyandsober 
I wonder why why my life is only getting worse and no better.
Not that sobriety makes everything better. But it is the starting point for improvement.
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I am a manager now and the team I’m managing openly disrespect me. It’s so awful there is a guy who is making my life hell and upper management blames me because I’m suppose to motivate him it’s an awful stituation I wish I had not taken this job.
I put put my two weeks in and I haven’t told my husband because he will be ****. What am I going to do for a living? I feel I can even do this two last weeks in this job it’s so awful.
A guy who is the senior manager of the site wrote a horrible humiliating email with several people in copy to me regarding this employee blaming me for the way I had handle the conflict with this employee.
i left in tears at 10 in the morning on Thursday as soon as I saw that email and I have to come back to work today and I feel I can’t face this I don’t want to come back.
but I need my paycheck and I’m embarrassed I’m acting like a weak pathetic person.
I put put my two weeks in and I haven’t told my husband because he will be ****. What am I going to do for a living? I feel I can even do this two last weeks in this job it’s so awful.
A guy who is the senior manager of the site wrote a horrible humiliating email with several people in copy to me regarding this employee blaming me for the way I had handle the conflict with this employee.
i left in tears at 10 in the morning on Thursday as soon as I saw that email and I have to come back to work today and I feel I can’t face this I don’t want to come back.
but I need my paycheck and I’m embarrassed I’m acting like a weak pathetic person.
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Originally Posted by Healthyandsober
Alcohol is the only thing that makes this bearable I just hate my life I don’t see a way out. God help me
What is the answer? For hating one's life? Not sure. But I know that depression has a medical solution. And despair, I believe, has a spiritual one.
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I’m off antidepressants at the moment I was feeling off. Thank you everyone for your responses. I feel less alone logging here and at least vent all this out of my body. I know all of this is my fault I just don’t know how to fix it.
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You do know how to begin fixing things. Staying sober will be a big step in the right direction. You will be able to figure out how to find a new job that, hopefully, will be a better fit for you. Things will get better.
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Join Date: May 2010
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Your work situation sounds unpleasant, but I think you know drinking won't help. Drinking doesn't help anything, no matter what our addiction tells us.
Staying sober is the first step to improving things.
I hope things feel better for you.
Take care.
Staying sober is the first step to improving things.
I hope things feel better for you.
Take care.
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