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Old 11-09-2020, 07:50 AM
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This is probably the hardest post I've had to make here. I relapsed. I came clean to my family and sponsor over the weekend. I've talked to my doctor. I just couldn't sit with this and not be honest.

So, day 1 for me. My sponsor and I are sitting down and coming up with a plan. I appreciate you guys.
My darling,

I love you to pieces. Zero judgement. Just love and support every which way.
Going to text you now and if you want to talk anytime I am here.

We will get you through this my beautiful friend. s xx ❤️❤️
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Old 11-09-2020, 07:58 AM
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I'm just going to go with what Suze said. More articulate and she has something I lack, lasting sobriety. Bobbie, you have it too.
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Old 11-09-2020, 08:00 AM
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Thanks Thirteenth. 38 days today. Trying to make it past 43 days as that has been my record in 2020. How are you doing?

Bobbie - this is freaking hard - like crazy hard. But what I know is that you have come so far since I met you. You aren't the same person - not even close. This does not define you or the immense progress you have made. Life is messy and recovery is even messier. This isn't a step backwards but instead it is a true testament to your strength, how far you have come and who you are as an amazing human. I feel fortunate to have you in my life and I am so, so proud of you. Day one or day 1,000 - doesn't matter - as long as you never, ever give up or stop trying. I love you
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Old 11-09-2020, 08:13 AM
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13th ~ we love you. Like Sam just said, whether you have 1 day or 1000. s

Just an awesome post dear Sam!!! s
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Old 11-09-2020, 08:14 AM
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Thanks, guys. You are my people. I can't begin to tell you how much you each have impacted my life, but I think you know.

Sam - you got this! Congratulations on 38 days!

Suze - Thanks for the texts. Your support means the world.

13th - I appreciate you and all of your support.
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Old 11-09-2020, 09:40 AM
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((brave Bobbieka))

Onwards. xx
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Old 11-09-2020, 11:52 AM
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For myself, all I can say is that I'm not there in sobriety. Trying to work up to another long(er) quit, hopefully forever. It's been a rough year even without the pandemic but I can't make excuses. I've let it get away from me and I have to get it back.
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Old 11-09-2020, 11:55 AM
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Just try one day love. Just one day. We can do it together. s xx
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Old 11-09-2020, 01:02 PM
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You know, 13th, we're always in your corner. No matter what.
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Old 11-09-2020, 01:34 PM
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You have all my support and prayers B.
Try not to beat yourself up about it- you know how terrible negative self thinking can be.

Prayers and support to all.
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Old 11-09-2020, 05:56 PM
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Hiya all,

13th - always good to see you posting
Sam - congrats on the increasing day count !!
PJ - You've come a long way, so happy you are in our little group and the SR community as a whole
Bobbie - All my support to you. You've given us all so much, now it's our turn. Whatever you need.

Venus, BBG and Caramel - good to see you all too, as always!!

I don't have any special words of wisdom for anyone (sorry) - this is hard work, we know that, but we continue to fight the fight.

Be good ...
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Old 11-09-2020, 06:06 PM
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I'm glad you came right back Bobbieka

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Old 11-10-2020, 03:47 AM
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(((Bobbie))) Echoing what everyone else here has said ~ Sending tons of hugs your way
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Old 11-10-2020, 04:40 AM
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Good morning Bobbie and all of you. s ❤️❤️
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Old 11-10-2020, 06:20 AM
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Good morning everybody. How ya' doin' Bobbie?
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Old 11-10-2020, 08:24 AM
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I'm good, BBG. Thanks. I'm a lot better than yesterday.

Good morning, guys.
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Old 11-10-2020, 01:45 PM
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Bobbie, sweetie.... I'm in your corner.
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Old 11-10-2020, 02:25 PM
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Thanks so much Lixie. I appreciate your support.
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Old 11-10-2020, 03:34 PM
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Just a quiet day of domestics and study today. Hope all are doing ok.
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Old 11-11-2020, 03:27 AM
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So my final exam was graded and I got an 80.....overall grade of 83%.....which means I passed Biology!

Now I'm in A&P (Anatomy & Physiology) ~ there are two courses 1 & 2, and their exams are not open book....

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