24 Hour Recovery Connections Part 144
24 Hour Recovery Connections Part 144
Welcome to the New
24 Hour Recovery Connection.
Please join others in making a commitment to stay
clean and sober for the next 24 Hours.
Check in once a day and every day by posting your local time.
clean and sober for the next 24 Hours.
Check in once a day and every day by posting your local time.
You may post a special message or song or image or your story.
Anyone can volunteer to do something
special for the group.
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Originally Posted by BarbieKen
Neo ,
I totally agree about who we called 'our friends' when we were active in our addiction. Hey, my BEST friend in the world, my husband, stopped hanging with me because I was still using. And, I get it now ...he put himself and his recovery first.
A wonderful benefit for me being active in my recovery via the 12 Step Rooms ....real friendships have formed. There are sober parties, game nights, movies, bbq's/picnics, out to lunch etc etc . I isolated in my LUCY kitchen at the end. I didn't even need those people I drank with, who I called friend. Just me, Lucy and a sh*tload of wine and anything else I had handy.
So, the surprise benefit of quitting drinking was making new friends, ones who I have FUN, laugh, cry and just love to pieces. You can quit drinking and be miserable, focusing on what you're missing. OR you can go about it a whole other way. One thing I know, I had to be willing and to find my HP again.
Bobbi
Neo ,
I totally agree about who we called 'our friends' when we were active in our addiction. Hey, my BEST friend in the world, my husband, stopped hanging with me because I was still using. And, I get it now ...he put himself and his recovery first.
A wonderful benefit for me being active in my recovery via the 12 Step Rooms ....real friendships have formed. There are sober parties, game nights, movies, bbq's/picnics, out to lunch etc etc . I isolated in my LUCY kitchen at the end. I didn't even need those people I drank with, who I called friend. Just me, Lucy and a sh*tload of wine and anything else I had handy.
So, the surprise benefit of quitting drinking was making new friends, ones who I have FUN, laugh, cry and just love to pieces. You can quit drinking and be miserable, focusing on what you're missing. OR you can go about it a whole other way. One thing I know, I had to be willing and to find my HP again.
Bobbi
from our darling strat: Checking in tonight. Going for another 24 hours at 5:50p CST.
Congratulations to SnoozyQ, maggpie666999, Soberjoy1, strategery (me), and Wigglyworm on reaching new milestones today! To celebrate our amazing accomplishments, tonight we have an Espresso Cake with Espresso Macarons! Keep up the great work!
Congratulations to SnoozyQ, maggpie666999, Soberjoy1, strategery (me), and Wigglyworm on reaching new milestones today! To celebrate our amazing accomplishments, tonight we have an Espresso Cake with Espresso Macarons! Keep up the great work!
Congrats to all the milestoners for today ! Being sober means we have the opportunity to have clear minds. As an example, I was upset all day yesterday as my sister didnt invite my family to my mother's birthday lunch. It was a very deliberate snub. Initially I tried to shrug it off as we are cordial at the best of times. However, it did nag away at me the whole day. Despite being upset, I carefully chose not to reply. Only after discussing with a friend and going to my Dharma practice, did the negative feelings melt away. Afterwards, I discovered that my sister is struggling with her financial situation, is beset with anxiety and is harbouring resentments towards my family. So, I am glad that I had the ability to control my feelings and understand more what she is experiencing. Now, I have compassion towards her. If i was still an active drinking, I would have probably unleashed a lot of angry and bitter texts at her. Phew !
Another 24 hours of patience and tolerance, compassion and sobriety pls ! Its 9:29am here !
Another 24 hours of patience and tolerance, compassion and sobriety pls ! Its 9:29am here !
Thanks Venus! I think I have the whole acronym going this first month, but I remember hungry and tired being the big crazy-makers when I last had long-term sobriety. I would be just like a cranky toddler if I didn't have my nap or, well, you know, ba-ba. . ...it's kinda like an altered state.
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