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Old 06-29-2016, 05:02 PM
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Hm.... that french guy gets around...

It gets better and better. Lol
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:04 PM
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checking in tuesday evening after another long day at work
feeling a lot better today and i know ill feel even better tomorrow
onwards

my best wishes to you and yours dee
Glad you're feeling better, Supertired.
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OMG, that cake!!!!!!
Lets have some Phoebe! Yum!
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by RedBerryJuniper View Post
perfect. Thank you.

I am feeling pretty down but I think it's actually fatigue. It's fake. Almost like being hangry. Or flue? . Sometimes you just need to Go To Bed. I am tucked in.

So 24 more, please?

Love RBJ with 25 24's
6:28 pm Wed
May a good restful sleep be yours RedBerry.

Sweet Sober Dreams.......................
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:11 PM
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Dee ~ hugs and prayers for you and your mum

Can I tell on myself early? Got invited to a concert that's a month from now and my AV already has me convinced that I'm probably going to drink that night. It's normal to feel this way, right? Sorry, my anxiety just kinda went through the roof there...... One day at a time.....I'm sober today and need to be sober tomorrow. 24 more please!
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:18 PM
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Positive thoughts for your mom, Dee

Wednesday here and all is well...although heat and air alert in effect

Take care all
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Hello Bloss,

Nice seeing you here today.
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Purplrks3647 View Post
Dee ~ hugs and prayers for you and your mum

Can I tell on myself early? Got invited to a concert that's a month from now and my AV already has me convinced that I'm probably going to drink that night. It's normal to feel this way, right? Sorry, my anxiety just kinda went through the roof there...... One day at a time.....I'm sober today and need to be sober tomorrow. 24 more please!
If you are thinking /feeling that way now, perhaps as the date gets closer re-examine your thoughts and maybe nix going. Otherwise have a great time. Stay disciplined and determined!
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Sorry for my little rant before...I can be such a brat sometimes!
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:26 PM
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Congrats to all the milestoners for today ! Being sober means we have the opportunity to have clear minds. As an example, I was upset all day yesterday as my sister didnt invite my family to my mother's birthday lunch. It was a very deliberate snub. Initially I tried to shrug it off as we are cordial at the best of times. However, it did nag away at me the whole day. Despite being upset, I carefully chose not to reply. Only after discussing with a friend and going to my Dharma practice, did the negative feelings melt away. Afterwards, I discovered that my sister is struggling with her financial situation, is beset with anxiety and is harbouring resentments towards my family. So, I am glad that I had the ability to control my feelings and understand more what she is experiencing. Now, I have compassion towards her. If i was still an active drinking, I would have probably unleashed a lot of angry and bitter texts at her. Phew !

Another 24 hours of patience and tolerance, compassion and sobriety pls ! Its 9:29am here !
Ego and sibling rivalry could often play games like this for me too. Now that I'm sober, I realise it's not all about me and that other people have feelings too. I now try and think and pause. Count to 10. And wait to see as you did what it's really all about. We're growing Kaneda. It is wonderful. And as we soul search realise we never really know all we think we do. lol.
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:27 PM
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Thanks Kris....just though it might help to get it out in the open ASAP....plus my friends would most likely be pleasantly relieved to see me sober for the first time in, well, the 13+ years that I've known them!

Speaking of HALT, I'm definitely feeling the "T".....better try and get some sleep soon....thanks again everyone for being here!
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Purpl,

That seems lik a bit of a red flag to me. Might be good to avoid it if those feelings persist. If you're strong in your sobriety by then, and don't feel so triggered it might be ok. I'm still at the stage where shopping at Target is dangerous enough (not in terms of craving, but just the upsetting effect), and I couldn't put myself around lots of intoxicated people without feeling uncomfortable...but everyone is so different, and YMMV. I think you'll know as it gets closer.

Thank you for posting, it's honest and helps me too



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Old 06-29-2016, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Purplrks3647 View Post
Thanks Kris....just though it might help to get it out in the open ASAP....plus my friends would most likely be pleasantly relieved to see me sober for the first time in, well, the 13+ years that I've known them!

Speaking of HALT, I'm definitely feeling the "T".....better try and get some sleep soon....thanks again everyone for being here!
Open and honest is good. Also understanding where some of our crazy thoughts come from, can help. Just don't get complacent and you'll be fine.

Sounds like some of my friends from before. Bless them. lol.

Sweet Sober Dreams.................
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Time for me, too. Worked really hard today and am tired. Hope to relax now and watch a movie.



Sweet Sober Dreams Dear Ones.
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^^^ Wonderful, Kris. Enjoy your movie.
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Hi,
Time to check in, thanks to my HP, AA, & SR.
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
Welcome to the New
24 Hour Recovery Connection.


Please join others in making a commitment to stay
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Check in once a day and every day by posting
your local time.
You may post a special message or song or image or your story.
Anyone can volunteer to do something
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last part here
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-143-a-20.html
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Thanks for the new thread, Dee.

Continued prayers for your Mum.
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Originally Posted by Goat View Post
Hm.... that french guy gets around...

Absolutely hysterical - love it.

Thanks, Goat.
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post

What a creative cake; delightful - thanks, Strat.
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Old 06-29-2016, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted by RedBerryJuniper View Post
perfect. Thank you.

I am feeling pretty down but I think it's actually fatigue. It's fake. Almost like being hangry. Or flue? . Sometimes you just need to Go To Bed. I am tucked in.

So 24 more, please?

Love RBJ with 25 24's
6:28 pm Wed
Sleep well, RBJ.

Think: HALT

Hungry
Angry
Lonely
Tired

For me, 'tired' was a biggie.
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