My Mom Died Last Night

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09-21-2009, 07:31 PM

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Kimm992

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My Mom Died Last Night

I knew this day would come - they say her kidney's failed in her sleep - likely from all her years of drug use.

She had gotten worse than ever this last year.

I am so numb right now - such mixed emotions: guilt, sadness, relief

I wonder if she felt alone when she died or if she thought nobody loved her.

I wish someone could tell me what I'm supposed to feel like right now.

09-21-2009, 07:35 PM

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sailorjohn

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Not going to tell you how to feel, simply tell you I'm sorry for your loss.

My thoughts go out to you.

09-21-2009, 07:37 PM

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Marie_A

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((((((Kimm)))))) I'm so so sorry...

09-21-2009, 07:41 PM

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IPT

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I'm sorry

. Wish I had something more of value to tell you.

09-21-2009, 07:42 PM

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teke

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oh my, kimm, i'm so sorry, i pray right now that your hp will comfort you and your family. i pray that she is at peace now, she is in a better place. i know this can't be much comfort to you right now but i do believe that our addicts deep inside know that they are loved..

god, what else can i say other than you are loved and i will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.

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09-21-2009, 07:53 PM

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JustAYak

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So sorry for your loss Kimm,

There is no right or wrong way to feel. Sending thoughts to you and your family.

09-21-2009, 08:01 PM

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Freedom1990

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I am so very sorry! ((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

09-21-2009, 08:32 PM

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rose

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I am so sorry Kim...we are here with you in spirit and heart. Don't think you have to feel any way, just the way you feel is all you need do. You might have mixed emotions for awhile, just know it is all normal.

Take Care of yourself,
Rose

09-21-2009, 08:39 PM

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Maggiemac

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I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless you and all your family.
Your friend,
Maggiemac

09-21-2009, 09:14 PM

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Suspicious

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My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss.

09-21-2009, 10:14 PM

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Done_With_It

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Kimm, you just take your time and when you are ready to feel it will come...
Keep coming here and talking whenever you feel up to it. We are all here
for you. Lots of love and light your way....

09-22-2009, 12:25 AM

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breakingfree88

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Kimm,
Life is seldom easy, huh? I wish I could give you a big hug in real life. I'm sorry you're going through this. I will be keeping you in my prayers.

09-22-2009, 12:28 AM

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cessy68

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Kim.......

Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss.

I just said a prayer for you and your mom.

Love,
Cess

09-22-2009, 02:39 AM

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Believe808

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Kimm, wishing I could just put my arms around you right now.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

09-22-2009, 02:39 AM

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peaceteach

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(((Kim))),

My sympathies. I agree with Done. When you are ready to feel, it will come. Be patient with yourself and know that your mom is at peace now. Take care of YOU.