My Mom Died Last Night

Old 09-22-2009, 06:46 AM
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Praying for strength for you to get through the days ahead.... may you find
comfort and peace knowing she struggles no more. A mother knows how much
a child loves them even during arguments, we don't forget the love.
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Old 09-22-2009, 06:59 AM
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Old 09-22-2009, 07:07 AM
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Oh Sweetie - please know you are being prayed for right now - my thoughts are with you - praying that you feel your HP's loving arms comforting you right now - that loving grace fills that emptiness in your soul.

As far as what you are "suppose" to feel - there is no right or wrong - it just is what it is - do whatever you need to do - but please please give yourself lots of tender loving care - you need it and your mom would really want you to have it.

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Kim, I am so sorry hon. Your mom is at peace now with no pain. You have to grieve and knowing your HP is with you to help alone the way should be comforting. My heart is with you now praying for some serenity to be with you through this. Hugs, Bonnie
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Love and prayers from me...

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Old 09-22-2009, 07:41 AM
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Kim, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Kimm be gentle with yourself, my prayers are with you.

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Old 09-22-2009, 10:13 AM
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Kimm, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs & prayers your way.

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Old 09-22-2009, 10:59 AM
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I'm so sorry. Time will heal.

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Old 09-22-2009, 11:13 AM
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sorry to hear of your loss

my younger brother who was probably in the last stages of an agonising alcoholic death died in a house fire 5 years ago

along with the pain and anguish was.......... relief ....relief he was not suffering anymore ,no pain ,no more mental illness ,no self loathing just peace ,some how i took a crumb of comfort in that ,maybe you feel that way a little too your mother is at peace now no more pain and worry ..take care pain does fade in time that i promise you
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Old 09-22-2009, 12:18 PM
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Kim! I am so sorry for your loss and your pain. I wish I could take away the pain from all of our hearts. I cant imagine how you feel right now please keep posting, we are all here for you!
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I am so sorry, Kimm, and send my prayers of comfort for you and all who loved your mom.

I believe that God loves all His children, including his addicted ones, and I believe your mother rests peacefully today in His arms.

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Old 09-22-2009, 05:08 PM
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Sending prayers for you, your mom and all those that loved her. Hugs, Marle
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Old 09-22-2009, 05:22 PM
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I am so sorry about your mom.
My prayers go out to you and your family.
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Old 09-22-2009, 07:36 PM
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Sending prayers and hugs to you and your family. Please take care of yourself.

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Old 09-22-2009, 08:04 PM
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I am so sorry, just let yourself grieve in your way, this is just so terrible.
I am praying for you and your family.

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Old 09-22-2009, 08:52 PM
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kimm, I'm so sorry for your loss It's so tragic that we have to loose so many people to this horrible disease.
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Old 09-23-2009, 12:13 AM
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Thank you all for your kind words - they really are comforting and I appreciate them so much.
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Old 09-23-2009, 07:19 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. My mom died in February of this year. I understand what you mean about not knowing how to feel. Some days I am sad, some days I am angry for the lifestyle choices she made that contributed to how she died.

We're often profoundly affected by a loved one's death, and I think even moreso when it's our mom.

Understanding hugs,
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Old 09-23-2009, 09:33 AM
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I am so very sorry for the loss of your Mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you - be kind to yourself - there is no "right" way to feel and/or grieve. Whatever you are feeling is ok.

I hate the disease of addiction - it kills the ones that we love.

Love in recovery,
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