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Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: South Texas, USA
Posts: 827
One thing
There was one thing I noticed in your story that rang familiar to me. It took me a long time to "get there" in our situation, but I hope my experience will help you:
In the midst of my deep resentment of him getting us into that situation, I felt no responsibility to the demise of our relationship, the breakdown of our family.
After so much time in reflection and self-care I was awakened to my participation in this hideous family disease. It was important for me to watch my own actions, take those next right steps, and not concern myself too much about the choices he makes. I've found a much more loving approach to us all when I focus more on myself and less on outcomes.
In the midst of my deep resentment of him getting us into that situation, I felt no responsibility to the demise of our relationship, the breakdown of our family.
After so much time in reflection and self-care I was awakened to my participation in this hideous family disease. It was important for me to watch my own actions, take those next right steps, and not concern myself too much about the choices he makes. I've found a much more loving approach to us all when I focus more on myself and less on outcomes.
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