Should I Forewarn Her About Being Served?
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad 
Hi Spence,
At this point I would have to say "no" to reconciliation. She has made absolutely no effort at trying to get better, she has no idea that there is even a problem, she's a part-time parent, and she spews hate at me on a regular basis telling me what a sh*tty person I am. My DS is already exhibiting Codie beahaviours, and I've had enough.
She's an ACoA who thinks she can handle all her issues herself, as long as it involves booze. I'm already in my 50's, I don't want the rest of my days to be like this. Also, DS7 deserves a better future, away from addiction.
At this point I would have to say "no" to reconciliation. She has made absolutely no effort at trying to get better, she has no idea that there is even a problem, she's a part-time parent, and she spews hate at me on a regular basis telling me what a sh*tty person I am. My DS is already exhibiting Codie beahaviours, and I've had enough.
She's an ACoA who thinks she can handle all her issues herself, as long as it involves booze. I'm already in my 50's, I don't want the rest of my days to be like this. Also, DS7 deserves a better future, away from addiction.
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I filed about 8 months ago and I feared his reaction so I moved out before he was served. I left him a letter telling him I had filed.
Today I am glad I did it that way. He has been vengeful in every way during this process. I have been blocked from everywhere and he has drained out bank account. Keep your side of the street clean. Do what you need to do to safeguard yourself. My AH wasn't even ready to acknowledge his side of the street... forget cleaning it up
Today I am glad I did it that way. He has been vengeful in every way during this process. I have been blocked from everywhere and he has drained out bank account. Keep your side of the street clean. Do what you need to do to safeguard yourself. My AH wasn't even ready to acknowledge his side of the street... forget cleaning it up
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Okay peeps, the original question has been answered over and over and over again. It's time to move on to other threads and other questions.
When a thread gets this long it attracts hi-jackers, so it's best to keep threads short whenever possible.
I am closing this thread as a means of keeping out the hijackers and encouraging you all to reach out to newbies.
Mike
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When a thread gets this long it attracts hi-jackers, so it's best to keep threads short whenever possible.
I am closing this thread as a means of keeping out the hijackers and encouraging you all to reach out to newbies.
Mike
Moderator, SR
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