Should I Forewarn Her About Being Served?
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It didn't happen today either.
Oh yes, Clover - I have had many conversations in my head, of course during those I have all the appropriate responses to her. In reality I probably won't know what to say.
Oh yes, Clover - I have had many conversations in my head, of course during those I have all the appropriate responses to her. In reality I probably won't know what to say.
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COD....did you ever watch a sloth moving? That is how the judicial system moves....even more so while we are chewing our fingers to the bone.....
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q...7B81&FORM=VIRE
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q...7B81&FORM=VIRE
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad 
It didn't happen today either.
Oh yes, Clover - I have had many conversations in my head, of course during those I have all the appropriate responses to her. In reality I probably won't know what to say.
Oh yes, Clover - I have had many conversations in my head, of course during those I have all the appropriate responses to her. In reality I probably won't know what to say.
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad
In reality I probably won't know what to say.
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Originally Posted by dandylion
COD.....the sloth in the GEICO commercial was ACTING.....
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Originally Posted by dandylion
COD.....the sloth in the GEICO commercial was ACTING.....
I've been that way with perfect conversations in my head that never seem to go quite that way IRL. It's impossible to know what the other half of that dialogue is going to be exactly, so I stumble the minute it goes off-script.
Now it's so much easier to skip the mental anguish/waste of time beforehand & trust that I'll deal with it to the best of my ability when it happens organically.... but it took a while to get there.
I'm still a work in progress when it comes to stifling the AHA comments I have after the conversation is over though - I'm learning to text but not SEND until I've had time to step away from it. LEARNING.
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I have had many conversations in my head, of course during those I have all the appropriate responses to her. In reality I probably won't know what to say.
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Originally Posted by Learning14
COD - can't the service people tell you when they are heading out?
I know I've done service stuff with my old job and they would give you a round about idea. At least that day.
I know I've done service stuff with my old job and they would give you a round about idea. At least that day.
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glad youre gonna have a quiet weekend- enjoy it!
i dont know much about the whole divorce paper serving business and how they go about it, but sure seems if money was owed or a lawsuit, them papers woulda been in her hands the day after filed.
i dont know much about the whole divorce paper serving business and how they go about it, but sure seems if money was owed or a lawsuit, them papers woulda been in her hands the day after filed.
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COD- my lawyer coordinated my STBXAH getting served and the guy called me just before he went to deliver it and right after it was done. You are paying for the service so you should be kept directly in the loop. I would recommend speaking with your attorney and getting the contact info. I can’t imagine just having to wait not knowing exactly when it will happen.
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Originally Posted by dandylion
COD....is it still snowing in your area?
I was born in West Virgina...not too far from the Ohio River.....
I was born in West Virgina...not too far from the Ohio River.....
People can't drive in this stuff. We get an inch of snow and it takes 3x as long to get somewhere. I grew up in the secondary snowbelt in NE Ohio - 4" of snow is a dusting up there. We get a half-inch here and schools are delayed or even closed.
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LOL - I'm in Montana - we can get 2 feet of snow with -40 degree wind chills! I, as a kid remember thinking, DANG I bet school will be shut down today, and nope....it just means you wear your big coat and face mask while you hike your butt there.
Oh geeze....I just did a 10 miles to school barefoot in the snow, up-hill - both ways story....
Oh geeze....I just did a 10 miles to school barefoot in the snow, up-hill - both ways story....
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Originally Posted by PuzzledHeart
COD - do you think there's the slight possibility that she knows that she's getting served, and is making efforts to avoid the server?
Wouldn't be the first time it's happened.
Wouldn't be the first time it's happened.
And if she thought she was being served, I doubt that she'd be as nice as she's been the last couple of weeks.
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