I drank Tonight
EndGame
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: New York, NY
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To BSF: I relapsed for about three years following twenty five years without drinking. I lost everything. Again.
My new sober date is August 20, 2011. I don't know that I've every been more happy with my life.
My new sober date is August 20, 2011. I don't know that I've every been more happy with my life.
I should be alright, just upset and scared I guess. I hope the best for you. This is not an easy road.
EndGame
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: New York, NY
Posts: 4,677
That's what I'm doing now. Trying to stay calm and relax. Just hung over and sore. Legs are sore, chest is sore. I did ecstacy too, so it's not like I just drank. You don't usually feel too hot the next day after just doing ecstasy, let allow getting hammered too.
I should be alright, just upset and scared I guess. I hope the best for you. This is not an easy road.
I should be alright, just upset and scared I guess. I hope the best for you. This is not an easy road.
As always, if you're concerned, then see your doctor.
That's great to hear. I was already starting to feel great and then I convinced myself I could drink. I got sober enough I forgot about the horrible part of drinking and remembered the fun.
I always get really hot when hungover. Your body will just be a bit shocked after being sober for a while then putting poison in it again. Im scared too but be thankful of your awareness of the problem. Hopefully we will both do much better from here on in.
We can only hope. Hopefully both of our last days drinking is November 15/16.
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Join Date: Sep 2013
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Boston, you remind me of myself - getting all worked up and making myself crazy.
You slipped up - one night - so what. It isn't like you are back to your old ways.
You still want sobriety - thats all that really matters. Forget all the days sober and self made rules and move forward.
You slipped up - one night - so what. It isn't like you are back to your old ways.
You still want sobriety - thats all that really matters. Forget all the days sober and self made rules and move forward.
Boston, you remind me of myself - getting all worked up and making myself crazy.
You slipped up - one night - so what. It isn't like you are back to your old ways.
You still want sobriety - thats all that really matters. Forget all the days sober and self made rules and move forward.
You slipped up - one night - so what. It isn't like you are back to your old ways.
You still want sobriety - thats all that really matters. Forget all the days sober and self made rules and move forward.
Hi BSF.
I had a good number of slips on my way to finding sobriety. Each one was a stepping stone to eventual success.
I went through the courts and mental health experts, D&A counsellors, all sorts of people tried to help, and I was cooperative and open to many of their suggestions.
As each attempt failed, the list of options got shorter. Each disaster brought me a step closer to a solution.
The only thing I needed to do was when one method failed, try something different. It would be crazy for me to keep trying things that did not work wouldn't it? Fortunately, none of my slips were fatal (though it was close at times) but each one took me a step closer to finding permanent recovery.
Keep an open mind my friend. Perhaps it's time to try something else.
I had a good number of slips on my way to finding sobriety. Each one was a stepping stone to eventual success.
I went through the courts and mental health experts, D&A counsellors, all sorts of people tried to help, and I was cooperative and open to many of their suggestions.
As each attempt failed, the list of options got shorter. Each disaster brought me a step closer to a solution.
The only thing I needed to do was when one method failed, try something different. It would be crazy for me to keep trying things that did not work wouldn't it? Fortunately, none of my slips were fatal (though it was close at times) but each one took me a step closer to finding permanent recovery.
Keep an open mind my friend. Perhaps it's time to try something else.
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: NC
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Definitely not to make light of it, but it's not the end of the world. Relapses are to be taken seriously, but you realize your mistake and that's the important part. I think you said you're 21, so there's definitely gonna be temptations. It took me many attempts at quitting and failing to realize what a problem I had, and you can learn from it if you remember how you feel now.
Definitely not to make light of it, but it's not the end of the world. Relapses are to be taken seriously, but you realize your mistake and that's the important part. I think you said you're 21, so there's definitely gonna be temptations. It took me many attempts at quitting and failing to realize what a problem I had, and you can learn from it if you remember how you feel now.
It really doesn't feel like I drank as long as I think positive and don't think about it. To me I'm still sober and one slip doesn't change that. I'm gonna learn from it and move on.
Thanks everyone!
lillyknitting
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Loughton, Essex, England
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That's not exactly my experience Maxx.
I think you're mixing two things up there.
Basically my withdrawals got worse the more years I drank.
But by the end, going back to drinking after a break, it was like I never had the break, or like my alcoholism had been growing all the time I'd been sober.
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I think you're mixing two things up there.
Basically my withdrawals got worse the more years I drank.
But by the end, going back to drinking after a break, it was like I never had the break, or like my alcoholism had been growing all the time I'd been sober.
D
A slip or whatever you choose to call it is not the end of the world, as long as you survive it.
But that is the reality. We never know if we will or won't, it's like playing Russian roulette.
I don't like seeing all these people who are like, no big deal, just forget about it.
In my opinion you need to seriously look at what lead up to taking that drink. Oftentimes, it is thinking that started way before the actual time you took a drink.
And you can, if you are really truly honest with yourself, learn from your mistake.
Stay strong, and learn to separate your AV from you. Best wishes.
But that is the reality. We never know if we will or won't, it's like playing Russian roulette.
I don't like seeing all these people who are like, no big deal, just forget about it.
In my opinion you need to seriously look at what lead up to taking that drink. Oftentimes, it is thinking that started way before the actual time you took a drink.
And you can, if you are really truly honest with yourself, learn from your mistake.
Stay strong, and learn to separate your AV from you. Best wishes.
A slip or whatever you choose to call it is not the end of the world, as long as you survive it.
But that is the reality. We never know if we will or won't, it's like playing Russian roulette.
I don't like seeing all these people who are like, no big deal, just forget about it.
In my opinion you need to seriously look at what lead up to taking that drink. Oftentimes, it is thinking that started way before the actual time you took a drink.
And you can, if you are really truly honest with yourself, learn from your mistake.
Stay strong, and learn to separate your AV from you. Best wishes.
But that is the reality. We never know if we will or won't, it's like playing Russian roulette.
I don't like seeing all these people who are like, no big deal, just forget about it.
In my opinion you need to seriously look at what lead up to taking that drink. Oftentimes, it is thinking that started way before the actual time you took a drink.
And you can, if you are really truly honest with yourself, learn from your mistake.
Stay strong, and learn to separate your AV from you. Best wishes.
I got sober when I was 17. I had to give up all my " drinking" friends. I couldn't stay sobor hanging out with them. I found out they were not my friends, but drinking buddies. Changing people, places, and things went a long way in getting me sober.
Well I messed up big time. Went out with my friends and ended up drinking and doing ecstacy. Feel like such a loser I can't begin to describe it. Been doing so good sober and I just blow it.
Being sober and 21 is so hard. So many times I'm pressured it's to the point I almost have to distance myself from my true friends to stay sober.
I just don't believe myself.
Being sober and 21 is so hard. So many times I'm pressured it's to the point I almost have to distance myself from my true friends to stay sober.
I just don't believe myself.
I went back out many, many times. But I did learn every time.
You can do it.
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