13 yrs sober today!!
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Originally Posted by kes2 
Amazing work!!! You should be so proud of yourself.
In my rehab programme they've told me my biggest obstacle is that I still see it as a fight every day rather than a positive life choice I've made. They said in their experience, if I keep seeing it as a fight, I'll get too exhausted and that;s when It'll strike?
I would really appreciate your wise words, or anyone who's reading
thanks guys
In my rehab programme they've told me my biggest obstacle is that I still see it as a fight every day rather than a positive life choice I've made. They said in their experience, if I keep seeing it as a fight, I'll get too exhausted and that;s when It'll strike?
I would really appreciate your wise words, or anyone who's reading
thanks guys
I prefer my sober life and there are no conditions that would drag me back to drinking.
No fight because I have what I want.
where are you on the scale?
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In the opening post on the weekender's thread, there is a quote by our dear departed friend Gilmer, She said it's better to quit drinking not because it's bad for you, but because something much better is waiting for you sober. 
I used to wish I could drink but after being sober a while, I was glad I was sober cause my life is so much better sober.
I used to wish I could drink but after being sober a while, I was glad I was sober cause my life is so much better sober.
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Originally Posted by kes2
In my rehab programme they've told me my biggest obstacle is that I still see it as a fight every day rather than a positive life choice I've made. They said in their experience, if I keep seeing it as a fight, I'll get too exhausted and that;s when It'll strike?
If I see sobriety as an "absence" of fun, relaxation, enjoyment then I am approaching it from a state of deprivation. And anyone who's dieted knows how hard it is to live in permanent deprivation! To always feel like you're missing out a bit.
When I begin to see sobriety as an "abundance" of freedom, relaxation, true fun, the chance to let your honest spirit out to thrive in the world, then I am approaching it from a state of power and gratitude. It takes away the desire to drink. It removes the attraction of the false relief because I KNOW that it is false. It's a facade. The truth of sobriety is MUCH more beautiful. It is real.
That's what I want. I think that may be what people with long-term sobriety mean when they say that no one could pay them enough to pick up again.
Just my thoughts on a really interesting subject, Kes!
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Kes has started a new thread here:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...lcoholism.html (Do you see recovery as a "fight" against alcoholism?)
Probably best to move the topic over there
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https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...lcoholism.html (Do you see recovery as a "fight" against alcoholism?)
Probably best to move the topic over there
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I'm late to join the party, but happy to be here to congratulate you on your 13 years!
To know we're not alone has made all the difference to me. I'm so glad to be walking down this road with you, least.
To know we're not alone has made all the difference to me. I'm so glad to be walking down this road with you, least.
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Hey Least, congratulations on your inspiring length of achievement. The fact that you kept sobriety going in trying and painful times was showing me strength in your sobriety resolve. You’ve been around as long as I can remember on these boards. I know you mentioned old timers who showed you it was possible, but you are one of the people who helped show me it was possible. Thankyou and congratulations!
congrats least, you are a gentle inspiration...
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Least,
I am also late to the thread. I echo all the sentiments that have already been expressed. The long timers such as yourself are an inspiration to all who are new and old here. Your continued sharing is appreciated and much needed by all who come here. Congratulations and best wishes.
I am also late to the thread. I echo all the sentiments that have already been expressed. The long timers such as yourself are an inspiration to all who are new and old here. Your continued sharing is appreciated and much needed by all who come here. Congratulations and best wishes.
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