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Old 05-28-2018, 09:44 AM
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1st year of sobriety 💜

So a year ago today I began my sobriety journey, the best decision I ever made. I reach this milestone thanks to a number of sobriety tools I put into place as part of my recovery plan. These include a sobriety mentor who is a friend with 10 years of sobriety behind him; he has provided support, encouragement, understanding and knowledge. Meditation has helped me change my relationship with anxiety. I completed an audio book/online programme called The 30 Day Sobriety Solution by Jack Canfield. I have listened to, and applied the principles of, countless recovery and motivational audio books. I have regularly checked in to and posted here on SR. I have completed a daily gratitude list to focus on the positives in my life.

The momentum created by the decision to embrace sobriety has meant that I have been able to achieve the goals I set out a year ago, and more. I have secured two promotions; bringing with them a sense of achievement and increased income. We have sold our 1 bedroom flat and will shortly be moving into the 3 bedroom house we have bought. I had a gastric band fitted and have currently lost 3 stone. My husband and I are also expecting our first child...which is magical 💕

In addition to the above tangible fruits of my sobriety, there are many unseen that I now experience. They include;

Sense of calmness
Feeling proud of myself
Trusting myself
Loving myself
Being productive
More energy
Managing my anxiety
Creating happy and fun memories
Experiencing enjoyment and fun
Feeling difficult emotions and working through them
Being free from alcohol - freedom
Feeling in control
Sense of fulfilment
A life which has meaning and purpose

Thank you to all at SR for your kindness, encouragement and support. Wishing you all well in your recovery journeys 💜
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Congratulations not only on the pregnancy, but also on one whole year of sobriety!
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Congratulations on a year sober, you have so much to be proud of. Also, congratulations on expecting your first baby, being a mom is the best gift in the world!!!
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Congrats on a year sober and the new baby on the way!
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Double congrats, Nova.
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Congratulations Nova.
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Huge congrats on both fronts!!
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Absolutely wonderful news on both counts, looks like you have really won the jackpot Onwards and upwards xx
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So wonderful, congrats for sobriety, baby, home and losing weight!!! So exciting
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Thank you all for taking the time to read my thread and for posting 💜
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Congratulations on one year, Nova!

So happy to hear the baby news!!

Yippee ... big congratulations to you and your hubby!!

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Fantastic!!!

That is one awesome milestone, well done you!!! I cannot congratulate you enough, you really are someone we can all look up to... You're an inspiration. Patrick
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I'm so happy for you, congratulations! Thanks for sharing your experience😀
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Thats exactly how it should look right there, great job and dont look back.. Big congrats to you!
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Nicely done nova. Congrats on one year. Amazing accomplishment.😀
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Wow, nova84...congratulations on one year and the exciting baby news!! What a wonderful year you have had. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It is really inspiring. Wishing you another year filled with much joy.
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Congratulations on everything! We have recently started to allow ourselves to consider a child in our lives. We knew it would never be possible while we were drinking. Your post gives me hope, thank you.
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Congratulations on your sobriety and the baby. Well done.
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Nova massive congratulations! Wow what an amazing post and a baby on the way too!!!!!
So thrilled for you ❤❤❤
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