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Old 12-03-2017, 08:09 AM
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Im gonna drink

These cravings wont pass thid morning.. forget it im gonna drink
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:11 AM
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They will pass. Drinking won't solve anything. Google urge surfing, go to an AA meeting if thats your thing, have a bath, drink some juice, eat, clean your teeth, take a walk.

There are many other things to do. You don't have to drink or need to drink. It's a craving - you don't have to act on it. You've done the best thing posting on here.Why not stick around?
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:12 AM
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They WILL pass, they ALWAYS pass......you have to starve the beast to kill him! Reach out, go to a meeting or a walk, phone a friend. Do ANYTHING but drink!
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:14 AM
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Maybe take a look in the December class too. post, read, blog, go in a chat room. SR is here to help and times like this are when you need it most
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:17 AM
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Don't drink!! The cravings will pass. Just don't drink!
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:17 AM
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I'm so sorry you want to drink. Drinking today will only prolong the cycle.
Do any of the things RAL posted. Post every minute if you need to.
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by tonisherrell View Post
These cravings wont pass thid morning.. forget it im gonna drink
And then what. The cycle continues? The obsession is relieved, temporarily. You then decide to quit; the craving return. The way to end the cycle isn't with drinking, but with quitting and staying quit.

Everybody who has attained lasting sobriety has made it over the hurdle you now face. So can you. Stay strong.
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:26 AM
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If you feed the cravings they will just come back for more and more. Stay here and chat instead perhaps?
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:27 AM
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I'll say it again, STARVE THAT BEAST!!

Stick with us
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:36 AM
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don't do it! cravings WILL pass.....they always do. it's the only way forward. drinking will not solve one single thing.
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:59 AM
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Im laying here thinking of all the reasons why i want to drink.. and also how i will feel if i dranked
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Old 12-03-2017, 08:59 AM
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My AV keep telling me one drink wont hurt and that I can start again tomorrow
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:01 AM
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My AV keep telling me one drink wont hurt and that I can start again tomorrow
I'm feeling like this a little but I'm not going to. Let's not together?
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Ive already dranked 5 cups of coffee and smoked a ton of cigarettes.. i really want to drink but no if i do i have to start again.. thats the only thing thats stopping me right now
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:03 AM
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Don't know about you but 'one drink wont hurt' was always a lie when I said it to myself.

Stay strong.
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted by tonisherrell View Post
Ive already dranked 5 cups of coffee and smoked a ton of cigarettes.. i really want to drink but no if i do i have to start again.. thats the only thing thats stopping me right now
I'm about to have coffee too.

Day 1 sucks. It's not worth it. Hope posting is helping.😁
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:15 AM
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Coffee was not my friend in early days, it just ramped up my anxiety, spinny thoughts, intrusive thoughts, etc.

What did help was walking - long walks outdoors. Oh, and ice cream.
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:16 AM
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Why don't you go out and take a bit of exercise, or do something to distract yourself.

The craving will pass--and you're right, if you drink you're back at Day 1.
You CAN do this--hang in there!
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted by tonisherrell View Post
Im laying here thinking of all the reasons why i want to drink.. and also how i will feel if i dranked
and??
there aint no drink worthy event.
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Old 12-03-2017, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted by biminiblue View Post
Coffee was not my friend in early days, it just ramped up my anxiety, spinny thoughts, intrusive thoughts, etc.

What did help was walking - long walks outdoors. Oh, and ice cream.
This. You are had enough good sense to get on here before you drank. You also have the good sense to ride this out. As others have stated, “tomorrow” means the horrible cycle starts again.

It appears to me you want to be talked out of drinking. You really do not want this.
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