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Old 02-02-2017, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by starstarstar View Post
PurpleCat, good timing on giving up alcohol. We all have people to cherish, books to read, songs to sing, plays to see, colors and nuances and beauty to absorb... an excellent chance at a living a long life will give you the time to do so.
Exactly.

My husband has stage 4 cancer and is kinda living on borrowed time. He's ok right now, so we are living life the happiest that we can. It can be all too short (he's just 50 years old).

I hope you and everyone else have strong and peaceful days ahead. The drinking is just not worth it, right?
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Old 02-02-2017, 03:12 PM
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Glad you joined us, omnicare6754110. Like you, I never know before I take that first drink whether I'm "just" going to have one or two more or if I'm going to drink the town dry. Best solution for me is to not take that first one.
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Old 02-02-2017, 04:40 PM
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Sorry to hear about your husband PurpleCat. Good news about your liver though. You can heal yourself.
The drinking is definitely not worth it. Hang in there and hopefully we'll all stay strong and peaceful.
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:29 PM
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How's everyone doing tonight?

Just took a nice long hot bath with a good book. About to cook some dinner and watch some television. I'm feeling good right now--feeling content and safe.

I decided to make Mr. Rogers my avatar for now as he is someone whose kindness and calm demeanor I could certainly stand to emulate.
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:33 PM
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I want in please ! 1/31 was my quit date. I have had a few lapses...this time I am here to stay. I forgot how supportive this group is. Glad to be back!!
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:35 PM
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Doing well and happy to hear you are the same.

Watching some Netflix and also doing some reading as well. It's funny how little things like being able to cook and eat a decent dinner is something to be thankful for. Hate all the days where I've skipped dinner for my liquid diet or have been feeling to sick to stomach it.
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:36 PM
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Hi everyone-day 2 in the books! It's great to see all of the motivation and support here. Going to bed sober and waking up without a hangover-even if tired-has got to be one of the best feelings ever!
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:52 PM
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Welcome MsCooterBrown!

Agree with you on focusing on the little things I should be grateful for right now, omnicare.

Congrats on wrapping up day 2, Readytodothis! Sleep well.
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:56 PM
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Count me in for Feb. '17. Day 2 for me. I went to the grocery store today and avoided the beer aisle.

Tomorrow, I'll have to be clever to avoid Friday happy hour. There's a pretty strong drinking culture where I work, and I've worked there for ages. Also, I live in one of the highest per capita craft beer areas of the U.S. As they say, you can't throw a hipster without hitting a brewery.
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Old 02-02-2017, 06:00 PM
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Welcome rascalwhiteoak! Happy hour seldom makes me happy.
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Old 02-02-2017, 06:32 PM
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Joining Feb 2017. Glad to be back on track.

Day 6 for me.
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Old 02-02-2017, 11:17 PM
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Welcome rascal btl and mscooter.

Morning from the UK.

Your evening sounds lovely bgj.hope it went well.

I will not drink today.
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Old 02-03-2017, 02:13 AM
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Thanks BGJ! Waking up not being totally blinded by light, smelling coffee brewing and looking at my daughter... not hungover! Actually not dreading going to work. I plan to post more of my personal story/struggle later on today. Congrats to all! Another day
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Old 02-03-2017, 02:31 AM
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Sorry to hear about your husband PC. With you being sober you can really be there for him now, more than if you were drinking.
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Old 02-03-2017, 02:59 AM
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Welcome and welcome back Behindthelens rascalwhiteoak and MsCooterBrown

I'm very sorry to read your news PC.

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Old 02-03-2017, 03:20 AM
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Yep, going to sleep/waking up sober is a great pairing for living life. One thing I found was every place I lived had a heavy drinking culture as long as I hung out with drinkers. Even here in Wisconsin which has the nation's highest rate of binge drinking, there are plenty of people who don't drink.
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Old 02-03-2017, 05:36 AM
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Agree on all points about waking up today. No moaning in the shower. No dreading the workday because I know I'll be so hungover that I'll be laying on the office floor by 10am. Not short of breath after walking a short distance because my body is in such disarray.

Couldn't wait to get to the computer and type that this morning. Can't wait to type something else later today. Feeling great for sure!
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Old 02-03-2017, 07:03 AM
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As a member of the class of January with 27 days, I'd like to wish you all in the Feb class all the best! This site is a great place for support, I hope you all hang in there!
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Old 02-03-2017, 07:05 AM
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Morning folks - glad to see you all doing well! I am ok - battled a tough night, almost gave in but instead gave it to the sink all washed away. Day 6 - I know this gets easier, but honestly I am struggling this time around. 2.5 years ago it was like a cloud lifted immediately - and while my slip was relatively short, this time is quite the challenge. Maybe it is because I am disappointed in myself, maybe it is because had it easy the last time. All I know is I cannot drink, not today, not tonight, not tomorrow, NOT EVER! So here is where I will be checking in and talking it through. God is greater than this!
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I'd like to join this group! Thanks Dee for hosting it!
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