Solicitor appointment regarding my parenting struggle
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Ok so I am taking number 2) off that list - Fuggedabout it. The kid is back in school now.
What a pathetic summer he has had mind you. Up at 6 am every morning to go to work with his mother.
Sure he needed contact with other kids but not full working days throughout his whole childhood ffs.
Everyone other than me and him for some reason know better. Although in the context of this thread I would say do they F'?
We will see eventually how much damage has been done. My suspicion is a lot and too much.
Cheers I'm out, peace and F' this life I'll say it again.
What a pathetic summer he has had mind you. Up at 6 am every morning to go to work with his mother.
Sure he needed contact with other kids but not full working days throughout his whole childhood ffs.
Everyone other than me and him for some reason know better. Although in the context of this thread I would say do they F'?
We will see eventually how much damage has been done. My suspicion is a lot and too much.
Cheers I'm out, peace and F' this life I'll say it again.
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Originally Posted by chickippo 
just checking here that you actually suspect your gay brother to be sexually assaulting your son? and you think this because your brother is gay?
if you have concerns for your child, continue to work with Social Services. Homophobia and (hopefully) baseless accusations of assault due to your brother's sexuality is hateful. I'm sorry, but there it is. Gay does not equal paedophile.
I genuinely wish you well and hope you can have all this resolved. Be well.
if you have concerns for your child, continue to work with Social Services. Homophobia and (hopefully) baseless accusations of assault due to your brother's sexuality is hateful. I'm sorry, but there it is. Gay does not equal paedophile.
I genuinely wish you well and hope you can have all this resolved. Be well.
This is a very good point....
Be careful to separate your opinions and beliefs from the facts that are objective and - most importantly - can be proven or corroborated with credibility.
In court, judges have little tolerance for speculative beliefs. You will only work against yourself if you resort to prejudicial statements.
Being gay, possessing sex toys, possessing gay porn - none of these are in themselves evidence of anything harmful to a child. If you believe that sexual abuse is happening, or the child is being shown inappropriate subject matter or exposed to inappropriate things - that is an entirely different situation and probably warrants the involvement of the police and qualified child psychologist resources.
Be very careful what you say and do in casting accusations around - in and out of court. This sort of thing can backfire on you personally, and will be unproductive and unhealthy for the child if unfounded.
You need to think about the child's BEST INTERESTS. Take everything from that perspective and stick to the facts.
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