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Do you think you can quit for good?

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Old 06-05-2015, 09:03 PM
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Old 06-05-2015, 09:07 PM
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I can quit for today and that's good enough for me.
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Old 06-05-2015, 09:13 PM
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Absolutely yes, no worries

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Old 06-05-2015, 09:15 PM
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I know that today I didn't drink! Forever is just too daunting for me! One day at a time.. It's not just a saying you literally have to take it 24 hours at a time!

60 days sober today!
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Old 06-05-2015, 10:00 PM
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Yep. Toughest part will be going back to Canada to visit the family, but aside from that, I should be able to do it.
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Old 06-05-2015, 10:57 PM
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Yes - as long as I keep working at it and never forget that ...

my alcoholic pilot light never goes out. Not til the day I die.
how my life was when I was drinking alcohol
the way I drank was not glamorous; quirky; or characterful (like it might be in the adverts)
it's no good comparing my insides with everyone else outsides
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Old 06-06-2015, 12:04 AM
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I'm creeping up on three years, so yeah. No plans to drink again.
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For me, the real question is: do I have self-belief ?

When I was drinking the answer was an emphatic NO. In my early days of sobriety, it was a faint and shaky yes. However, with each day of sobriety under my belt, the answer YES becomes louder and more confident.
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Old 06-06-2015, 02:35 AM
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Yes. I don't want to go back to the past. There is nothing for me there.
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Old 06-06-2015, 03:00 AM
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Yes I believe I can.....after a long time of denial I now know with 100% certainty I will loose everything if I pick up. Turns out there are just too many things im not willing to give up on.
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Old 06-06-2015, 03:14 AM
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I think I might make it. A hesitant yes... I'm only 6 and a half weeks sober but this feels really different to my other attempts. In the past when I've given up I've felt resentful that I can't drink but this time it's different. I often feel really relieved that I don't drink anymore. Lots of things in my life are changing. I feel this could be the start of something real...

So, absolutely, put me down for a tentative yes! When I was a kid I had a badge that read:

I used to be indecisive but now I'm not so sure

It's a bit like that with an absolutely tentative yes
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Old 06-06-2015, 03:24 AM
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I do believe so but Im a young guy with a lot of years (hopefully!) ahead of me so it does feel like a slightly daunting task but for the moment I feel confident.

Honest opinion.
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Old 06-06-2015, 03:25 AM
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As long as I continue to incorporate
steps and principles taught to me 24yrs.
ago into all my affairs one day at a time,
practicing openmindedness, willingness,
and by all means, honesty, then, im
guaranteed another days reprieve
that I will be sober when I complete
another 24 hours without poison trying
to send me to an early grave.
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Old 06-06-2015, 03:29 AM
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Yes, I have no choice, it's do or die now. It's amazing what a dose of scared straight will do for you, I don't really recommend all the wreckage and pressure like I have gotten but it's made me straight and i think for good this time. I am voluntarily working a program with my therapist until the court puts the hammer down on me. I really like the one on one, I've been through rehab three times already and failed but the court will probably prescribe it again, sigh..
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Old 06-06-2015, 03:46 AM
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Yes!
I can quit for (the) good (of);
Myself
My Family
My Neighbors
My Community
And, Society at large!!!

They all will be very happy
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Old 06-06-2015, 04:06 AM
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A resounding Yes. Too many great moments to experience that, if drinking, would never be realized.
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Old 06-06-2015, 04:43 AM
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I never ever want to feel as crappy as I did for years. There is a very simple way make sure that never happens again. Just the thought of drinking makes me feel ill.
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Old 06-06-2015, 05:19 AM
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I said maybe.
I have quit for over 27 years, but I cannot say for sure I will stay quit for the rest of my days. To change my mind is still optional. I can only promise that I will do my best to stay quit today.

In a way, this uncertainty, helps me not to take my quitting for granted, or think I can stop quitting today and quit again tomorrow, or no need to quit anymore because I am cured.

Most long term quitters know that quitting is no guarantee.
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Old 06-06-2015, 05:31 AM
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yep. nearly 14 months here and it's starting to suit me. I just feel like I don't drink.
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Old 06-06-2015, 05:39 AM
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Seems so far that the yes's have it.
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