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Old 12-11-2014, 08:57 PM
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I'm back and on day 1

Hi everyone

Haven't been on for a while and have been drinking a bottle of wine a night again and not even enjoying it. Had some family issues and stupidly thought that wine would help which of course it didn't

So I'm back to the beginning, I have a date for an op beginning feb and really need to lose weight and get healthy before that to reduce risks of anything going wrong.

My son needs me and I need to be around for as long as possible for him

I've cancelled xmas party this month so don't have any occasions coming up where I would be tempted to drink. Really hope I can do it this time.
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Old 12-11-2014, 08:59 PM
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I know you can do it Mavis!
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Old 12-11-2014, 09:03 PM
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So glad to see you back here Mavis!

Day 1 is a wonderful new beginning. ♥
Sending you love,

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Old 12-11-2014, 09:07 PM
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Hi!
Ugh, wine seems so innocent!! It's my poison, my usual was 1-2 bottles a couple- a few times a week.
Best wishes xoxo
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Good to see you back here Mavis!!
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Old 12-11-2014, 09:14 PM
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Welcome back Mavis.
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Old 12-11-2014, 09:17 PM
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Welcome back Mavis.
The next time something gives you the 'wobbles" like your family issues did, what will you do differently?
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Old 12-11-2014, 09:25 PM
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Welcome back, Mavis. Wine--what a seemingly innocuous nemesis! My family can send me round the bend too.
Good job getting back on the horse!
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Ah, a glass of wine curled up on the coach watching tv or cooking or talking to friends or surfing the web. The very picture of a peaceful content life. Unless you are an alcoholic....in which case there is no difference between that and lying in the gutter with a cheap bottle of vodka. Play the tape forward, both stories end up with the same ending.
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Old 12-11-2014, 09:39 PM
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oh yea!! family can put me in orbit.....arrrgh.....


but I'm slowly learning to maintain my peace of mind -- and not Drink At Them.

Thanks for posting, I've been there and done that.

All the best Mavis. Glad you came back.
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Old 12-11-2014, 10:53 PM
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You can do it Mavis!
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Old 12-12-2014, 12:27 AM
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Hello Mavis

I was just thinking about you the other day.

Good to see you back.
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Glad you're back. I hope this can be your last day one.
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Old 12-12-2014, 12:55 AM
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Mavis,

It's so good to see you back


Do you have a solid recovery plan in place for yourself ? Some tools in your toolbox to combat cravings in these initial days ?

And how are your adorable kitties doing ?

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Good on you for coming straight back Mavisthefairy (I just love that name, makes me smile every time I read it )
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Old 12-12-2014, 01:06 AM
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So pleased you're back and trying again, Mavis. It's so worth it - and so are you ♥♥
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Great to see you've retuned!
You've posted, aiming yourself to a victorious comeback.
You can do it!
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Old 12-12-2014, 01:52 AM
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SO glad you're back and starting again Mavis, you've made a wonderful decision. How are the kittens?
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Old 12-12-2014, 04:08 AM
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Hey Mavis! Welcome back! I know the last time you were here, you were having a friend come over who was bringing a bottle of wine. Can you make your house an alcohol free zone? I really think that might help you. Tweak your plan and stick around. You can do this!
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